It depends on the circumstances. If you were the abuser or the victim you need to think about your future very clearly. If you were abused often but not daily by someone who would not seek help you need to consider if your relationship should be terminated completely if they are still unwilling. If you are an abuser you need to pinpoint when and why you started such behavior and most likely involve yourself in some sort of therapy. If radically abusive or abused you need to seek intense therapy. If you stood around and took terrible abuse for a long period of time you probably are in need of therapy as badly as the abuser.
Just decide if you need to seek therapy or simply continue your life. You'll find happiness in being single if you were abused for a long period of time, and if you run into a new abusive partner or get together with the same partner and he stays abusive then you need to cancel that relationship and remind yourself it is not your fault. Good luck, I know that emotional and physical abuse can be taxing and dealing with it is difficult.
need to give it time. don't fall in love with just any one
if you are in a abusive relationship just don't stay with them say that you don't feel the spark in the love and that you want to move on.
i guess it's an abusive relationship.
do not continue an abusive relationship once you are strong enough to leave... my daughter divorced her emotionally abusive husband who molested her children,,, in less then 3 months she is seeing the pediphile again and isolateing herself from her family and forcing the children to be with this man again... if you go back into an abusive relationship of any kind your the same as the abuser, mayber even worse... do not be a fool or victimize your self again... don't do it.............................
Look up Traumatic Bonding and Stockholm Syndrome. And get out of that relationship.
It means you are in an abusive relationship and you should get out now.
its about a girl in an abusive relationship (Rihanna) who keeps decieving herself by calling it love and apparently enjoying her pain. the man in the relationship (Eminem) also lies to himself by sayin stuff about how he loves her but he says he'll kill her if she tries to leave again.
Abusive relationship is not good. It affects nearly all aspects of life.
It doesn't matter. If someone was physically abusive toward you it certainly violates trust. You have to ask if you can ever trust again. Will you be waiting for it to happen again? Will you be worried that if you say or do the wrong thing that there will be another incident of abuse? That's no basis for a relationship.
It is important to exit an abusive relationship carefully. Slavery is abusive.
No. absolutely not. If you are being abused the person who is abusing you does not truly love you. the Abuser makes you feel responsible for his/her actions. therefore making you believe you are in love with that person.
I am sure there are lots of ways a normal relationship can become abusive but there is one that sticks in my mind: A serious relationship. It is because if you are mainly the girl in a relationship (it is mostly the girl playing the victim and the guy playing the abuser) you are more into love than he is so therefore you push yourself into that serious relationship. As he knows you pushed yourself into the relationship he thinks he can control you now and since he knows it is serious he thinks that you won't run away because you love him.