How do you make a guy be attracted to you?

Answer 1

Connecting with other people brings infinite rewards. And wether its landing a job, winning the promotion, gaining the sale, charming a new partner, electrifying your audienceor passing inspections by future in-laws, if people like you, the welcome mat is out and a connection is yours for the making. Other people are your greatest resource. They give birth to you; they feed you, dress you, provide you with money, make you laugh and cry; they comfort you, heal you, invest your money, service your car and bury you. We can't live without them. We can't even die without them. Connecting is what our ancestors were doing thousands

of years ago when they gathered around the fire to eat woolly mammoth steaks or stitch together the latest

animal-hide fashions. It's what we do when we hold quilting bees, Golf tournaments, conferences and yard

sales; it underlies our cultural rituals from the serious to the frivolous, from weddings and funerals to Barbie Doll conventions and spaghetti-eating contests. Even the most antisocial of artists and poets who spend long, cranky months painting in a studio or composing in a cubicle off their bedroom are usually hoping that through their creations they will eventually connect with the public. And connection lies at the very heart of those three pillars of our democratic civilization: government, religion and television. Yes, television. Given that you can discuss Friends or The X-Files with folks from Berlin to Brisbane, a case must be made for the tube's ability to help people connect all over the globe. Thousands of people impact all aspects of our lives, be it the weatherman at the TV studio in a neighboring city, or the technician at a phone company across the continent,

or the woman in Tobago who picks the mangoes for your fruit salad. Every day, wittingly or unwittingly, we make a myriad of connections with people around the world. The Benefits of Connecting Our personal growth and evolution (and the evolution of societies) come about as a result of connecting

with our fellow humans, whether as a band of young warriors setting out on a hunt or as a group of coworkers heading out to the local pizzeria after work on Friday. As a species, we are instinctively driven to come together and form groups of friends, associations and

communities. Without them, we cannot exist. Making connections is what our gray matter does best. It receives information from our senses and processes it by making associations. The brain delights in and learns from these associations. It grows and flourishes when it's making connections. People do the same thing. It's a scientific fact that

people who connect live longer. In their gem of a book, Keep Your Brain Alive, Lawrence Katz and Manning Rubin quote studies by the McArthur Foundation and the International Longevity Center in New York and at the University of Southern California. These studies show that people who stay socially and physically active have longer life spans. This doesn't mean hanging out with the same old crowd and peddling around on an exercise bike. It means getting out and making new friends. When you make new connections in the outside

world, you make new connections in the inside world-in your brain. This keeps you young and alert. Edward M. Hallowell, in his very savvy book Connect, cites the 1979 Alameda County Study by Dr. Lisa Berkman of the Harvard School of Health Sciences. Dr. Berkman and her team carefully looked at 7,000 people, aged 35 to 65, over a period of nine years. Their study concluded that people who lack social and community ties are almost three times more likely to die of medical illness than those who have more extensive contacts. And all this is independent of socioeconomic status and health practices

such as smoking, alcoholic beverage consumption, obesity or physical activity! Other people can also help you take care of your needs and desires. Whatever it is you'd like in this life-romance, a dream job, a ticket to the Rose Bowl-the chances are pretty high that you'll need someone's help to get it. If people like you, they will be disposed to give you their time and their efforts. And the better the quality of rapport you have with them, the higher the level of their cooperation. http://cebuentrepreneur.com

Answer 2

You can not make someone attracted to you. Do not ever change yourself the the sake of someone else just they will like you. You are headed for a major heartbreak and a lot of wasted time if you try to make someone like you for anything less that what you are.

Answer 3

There are basically two types of attraction. The first type is what happens when you see someone and Bang! you get excited. You think they're hot, sexy, desirable, a knockout, etc. You don't have any control over this, and neither does the other person: it's like a reflex.

The second type happens when you get to know someone and become attracted to their personality -- who they are "inside". You do have control over this. Of course, you have to know yourself, at least a little, and you have to be comfortable letting someone else see this side of you. Now, the problem with this is that the person you want to be attracted to you might not be attracted to your personality. That may seem like a downer, but the fact is that if people aren't attracted to each others personalities, the relationship isn't likely to be much fun for you.

Answer 4

They have to be attracted to you in some way first but they don't pay much attention .. GIRL-make sure you make an effort on what your wearing, make-up and hair but don't go over board or its noticable and then your trying to hard.. be yourself especially don't get nervous in front of him just talk normally with a casual flirt here and there.. direct eye contacts good and smile.. let him see your the fun one but not the funny one and play it cool ;)

BOY- when she walks in a room look her n the eye and smile, talk to her don't be shy and don't avoid the situtation.. never ignore her if your out with friends and still talk to her .. tell her she's pretty and stuff .. don't be a nerd, or a gerk just be nice :)

Answer 5

by making eye contact with him and flirting a little.

Answer 6

Be noticeable by talking to more people and saying hi 2 him sometimes

Answer 7

Well it depends on who you are and who you're trying to attract.

Answer 8

first, you have to know the weakness of that 'someone'.. so that you could think how you would set his eye on you.. -samishiyoru

Answer 9

By being yourself ^^