How do you make him leave his wife?

Answer 1

I wish it was my husband that you wanted, it would go another way and you wouldn't like my work! as the old saying goes: you can't turn a ho into a house wife! I wish he would leave his wife for you, and then I'll come along and take him from you! Then you will be in the same place as his wife! I would pay anything to see the look on your face! get you own man and stop settling for some other woman's sloppy seconds!! A man will never leave his wife for a ho, he just wants his cake and eat it too and you are so stupid for even giving him that much power over your life.do you know that his wife can sue you for alienation of affection from her husband?? Look it up sweetie!!! don't you think that if he's cheating on his wife with you, he's cheating on you with somebody else?? Instead of plotting way of how to get him to leave his wife, you need to see if you are the only ho he's seeing!! You make me sick as a woman, (I mean a skank)What you could do is start with a sexy Dress that shows a lot of cleavage then if that doesn't work then start talking about his interests Good luck!! AnswerHANDS OFF! The man is taken so leave it alone! You can have cleavage down to your thighs and swings your backside and cause a earthquake, but you will only cheapen yourself and look absolutely ridiculous. Believe it or not there are very loyal men out there that don't cheat on their wives. Are you so hard up you have to start going after married men? Here's a thought ... try a single guy or at least one that is divorced.

1. Answer

Be everything she's not and MORE! But of course while only showing who you really are, don't fake it, he'll hate you later. I can't say it works 100% of the time, but it does work.

Answer 2

One way that you can get him to leave her for you is to be his friend. Get to know him a little better. When you think that you have him figured out, hang around and get to know his friends. When you see him upset, take your chance and make him feel better. If you don't see his girlfriend around, do everything in your power to get him to notice you more. Then, He's basically all yours.

Answer 3

You cannot force anyone to do something they do not want to do and were not ever going to do in the first place. As "the other woman" you are just that "the other woman" unfortunately when a man cheats on his wife he was always intending to just use you for his selfish needs and had no intention to ever leave his wife and/or be with you. You should stay away from this man and move on you deserve better and he will just stay with his wife.

Answer 4

This is a difficult question, since it assumes somehow that one is in a situation parallel to another situation filled with tension. From the perspective of a divorced person, I can testify that after a divorce decision, it is important for one to spend time on their own.

The trauma of leaving a relationship leaves people weak and often lacking in judgement. Time to heal is important and involving other parties, may not let us see and deal with the pain. It can also lead to unfair treatment of the other. For example an ex-spouse can easily use this fact as a weapon or major reproach, and thus 'victimise' themselves, avoiding to see what might have been wrong in a relationship. From the perspective of the external party, waiting and feeling this pressure is very diminishing and probably tormenting...

Rebuilding our defenses and getting to know how we have evolved through time is a core concept of healing. I have always been skeptical about people who did leave partners and actually ended up very quickly with people very similar to the ex-partners.

The fact that people need to leave a relationship is a sad fact, but it is better than force-feeding dead relationships. Yet, grace and respect are good notions to apply.

While separated from my husband, I met a man who, from what I could gather was ending a martial relationship. In many ways, I found in him many qualities and he was trully an interesting person, whom I got to know on a friendly level. I always though had the impression that he was looking for someone to hang-on to, to be able to get through this situation.

Then I asked myself, do you trully want to take the risk and influence his decision making be that for someone else? My answer was no! I gave this person some advice about decision making and the importance of being honest with oneself and then with others. Although I like supporting people, in this situation I felt that even if this person sincerely liked me, his judgment might have been blurred by his state of distress.

Although I knew that he was an extraordinary man in many ways, I prefered to let him accomplish this step on his own, rather than accepting to be the so-called 'one' he would leave his wife for. This is not to say that he was worth nothing, but rather, that he could be worth more to himself and others if he could marshall the courage to get out of a difficult situation, without draining someone else.

I was subtle about it and did not try to moralise me. He decided not to contact me again. It's for you to decide if he was sincere :-)!

Answer 5

If hes going out with you then hes obviously unhappy in his marriage. Ask him that if this is the case why doesnt he end the marriage.

If he doesnt want to end the marriage tell him its over. If he likes you enough he would end up choosing you; that would be the ultimate test.

remember if you marry a man who left his wife, you the wife of a man who will leave his wife to marry some one else

Answer 6

show him your worth it