How do you make your fiancee love you more?

Answer 1

In order to please someone you've got to know that person: what he likes, what he dislikes, what he wants and what he avoids, what he accepts and tolerates, and what he would never forgive. Once you have those under control, and if love is turned on for you two, pleasing becomes automatic and as natural as breathing.

Answer 2

Firstly, if this is a serious concern, you may want to rethink the fiance part. If you are crazy in love at this point of the relationship, it is going to be a rocky road ahead if you force through it. Love is something that is grown, not something that you can make someone feel.

With that out of the way, if you two are already crazy about each other, and you just want to grow that and foster it, you start out with respect and consideration. I don't mean respect like calling each other ma'am and sir. Respect in a relationship is thinking about the other person's feelings and concerns, building them up, and being positive. When you have to tell them something is wrong, never say things like they are stupid. Saying something like "Good grief, didn't your mom ever teach you how to wash clothes? You keep tearing my stuff up!" Being positive would be something like, "Hey, I really appreciate that you have been helping with the laundry. It has been a huge help. I know you have never had to wash Bras before, but when you do, could you put them in this lingerie bag? It helps them last longer." Being respectful and supportive will do a lot towards fostering caring feelings. Also, do things to give him (her) little ego bumps in front of their friends. Never embarrass them (unless it is something you know they are totally okay about). Basically, be there for them. Make their priorities as important as your own. Be kind.

Answer 3

if you have to ask, you better not get married, there is nothing worse than having doubts about the person you want to marry and have a full life with.

Answer 4

Depends on how much they spend on you.