If the person has been lying more than say 10% of the time, your relationship is a fantasy because you do not really know who the other person is -- and probably neither does he/her. In short,ready to cheat.
this can only be fixed if your truly sorry about what caused the mistrust in the first place and your both prepared to work at rebuilding that trust,you have got to work together if you believe in what you have is special and worth saving. Once trust has been broken it's hard to get back. Everyone makes mistakes because none of us are 100% perfect, but if this person is constantly lying they aren't going to change and you need to move on. I had to walk away from a 30 year relationship with a girlfriend of mine because of her constant lies about other people, including myself. Others had walked away from her, but I wanted to stick it out. I was one foolish person to think this person would change even though I confronted them many times. I feel badly the relationship had to come to this, but I have to look after my own sanity and she is going to have to come to grips eventually with herself. I should have done it 29 years ago. I certainly feel less stressed.
Stop lying to him.
A person who lies once is a person that will continue to lie. Chances of him ever stopping lying are slim to none. The most important thing in a relationship is honesty, if you don't have that then you will never be able to trust him ever.
Get addicted to drugs!!!! It works, trust me!
you cant stop the 13 year old from lying. But you can gain his/her trust.
Is it okay if your partner asked you to stop having friends? NO! If you can't trust your partner with friends then what's the point in continuing a relationship with this person. Without trust, there is no relationship.
Number one, stop lying! Girls will always take it to the next step (ie, he lied about this, I bet he's cheating on me!) Trust is rebuilt with time. Apologize for lying and if you have anything else to confess, do it then. Watch joking about being with other women, and for goodness sake, stop lying!
Spend a lot of time talking with the child to try and get them to stop lying, there is probably a reason for the lying like lack of attention or other. But don't trust them unless you know they are telling the truth. and that is for their own good.
Break up with him, he can't be trusted. It is hard to have a good relationship if you can not trust your boyfriend/girlfriend. Or talk to him about it and tell him you will give him one more chance to stop lying.
Stop lying!
Understand that we are not commenting on your cheating, because your relationships and sex life are your business. However, your boyfriend has absolutely no reason to trust you now or later. Whether or not you can regain his trust rests principally on how gullible he is, and/or on how strongly he feels about the situation to begin with. That said, a nice apology and promise, then doing absolutely nothing that could raise his suspicions again, would seem the only practical way. If you can't stop cheating, you owe it to yourself and to him to tell the truth and let him decide about the relationship.
You have to take deep breathes and just trust your partner.
Trust is absolutely fundamental to any sound relationship, and without honesty I don't see how there can be trust. It's unimportant whether the lying is 'compulsive' or whether it's malicious. Both kinds do a lot of serious damage to relationships. Stop, think and ask yourself how you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone who lies frequently and habitually. Joncey