How does a 11 year old girl get a boyfriend?

Answer 1

A nine year old should wait until they have at least 5 more Birthdays before they worry about getting a boyfriend. Mainly because 9 year old boys are very immature and teen boys could get in trouble for dating a girl who is so much younger than they are.

But that doesn't mean you should sit around waiting til you grow old. You should start learning about some things that boys are interested in, that interest you too, while you are nine, ten, eleven etc. You can learn about cars, even learn how to do simple repairs, like helping change the oil.

You can pick out a sport that you like playing or watching, get a favorite team and learn what you can about them. Have a couple favorites if you like. Watch the playoffs and be able to talk about the good plays or bad ref calls.

Learn whatever you can about the latest Video Games that everyone likes, learn about computers, how they run and what makes them work. Learn about music and musicians if you like.

Now remember you have 5 years, you don't have to learn all of these at once. While you are on this quest, discover all you can about yourself. Discover what you are good at and make yourself into the best you can be. Find things that make you feel good to do, like volunteering at the local animal shelter or old folks home. 9 is a little young for most places to be able to let you volunteer yet - so learn all you can about what you'll want to do when you're a couple years older - as part of your inner quest. Or join a church group or boys and girls club / girl scouts - so you can do things in a group.

Learn to be a good listener. Learn how to get people to talk to you by being interested in them (boys and girls) Ask them questions that need more than a yes or no answer (called open - ended questions). Instead of asking someone; "Do you like hockey?" ask them "What do you like best about hockey?" (or Baseball or fishing etc)

Boys like girls who are interesting, confident, have things in common with and are happy - and make others happy. They like girls who can joke around. (Knowing some good jokes is good too).

Boys do like girlie-girls. Not loud and obnoxious. Boys like girls who can cook too, if you enjoy cooking, or enjoy eating if the boy likes to cook. I'll let you in on the most important part of a boy / girl relationship - the best boyfriend is a boy who is your friend first.

Answer 2

Im 11 too and its very hard but look out for these particular signs

.he often stares at you

.he sits next to you

.he insults you to get attention

GOOD LUCK IVE BEEN TRYING FOR YEARS

Answer 3

Just talk with the girl who you love, many times, and she will become your girlfriend, and keep on talking more and more, give her a present, and she will fall in love with you. Sweet kisses also work fine. Go ahead man, if you want you can.

Answer 4

Here's the best way. Enjoy all of your friends at school, and pretend that you are not looking for that special someone. See if you can even fool your best friends. As you mix more and more with your friends, you'll notice certain people are a little more interesting to you than others. That's the first sign. Then when you notice these guys, don't talk about girlfriend/boyfriend stuff, talk about the stuff that interests you, and talk with them about the things that interest them. If they keep wanting to talk with you, That's the second sign, and you are pretty much there. After that, it's just a matter of practice.

Answer 5

young love I'm guessing, I wouldn't worry about it, dont think about love it just waist your time i dated a person who loved me then in 4 months he broke up with me

Answer 6

look cute and put ur self out there... Oh and get boobbes

Answer 7

look cute and put urself out there... oh and get booobs

Answer 8

grow some pubes

Answer 9

hey bae

Answer 10

hey bae