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When we're young our minds race all over the place and there are so many choices to make. Most of these choices aren't just about another mate, but can be serious decisions re going away to college, moving to Another Country for a job or just wanting "head space" to find out who you are, what you want out of life and perhaps this is your ex's reasoning. At the time you split-up you had every right to ask why she wanted to move on. No one can predict a time when your ex will or won't be back. Stranger Things have happened. A couple may have fallen in love with someone in high school and then they part. Many years later they may meet and end up having a relationship and even marrying. I have two friends that did that. Miracles never cease and they come in strange ways. I was married to a verbally/physically abusive husband. I lived up North in Canada away from my family so it was difficult for me to get out of the relationship because I had no money to fly out and come home. I also was very young and impetuous. While up North one of our male friends would talk about going home and visiting his best male friend just outside of Vancouver, B.C. I had heard this name various times, but never gave it much thought. When my husband and I returned to Vancouver, B.C., we tried again in our marriage, but it didn't work, he didn't change his ways and I left and filed for divorce after 3 1/2 years. It hurt me deeply that I had trusted this person and they'd turned on me, but even as young as I was I knew it was time to stand on my own two feet and look forward into the future. Our male friend would visit me when he was in town and he was concerned about me. We were just like brother/sister and there was nothing romantic about it. Even though I was back in the dating circuit I would take the occasional sabbatical because I was tired of some of the game-playing while dating. My male friend was concerned and ask me what I was looking for in a man. I jokingly did tell him and before I knew it I was introduced to this friend he had mentioned to me many times up North. Guess what? We became friends, we fell in love and we have now been married 34 years! You see what I am saying? Life can throw you some wonderful curves. Either this young woman is coming back into your life or you are going to meet someone very special out there.

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