How or why would someone just up and leave you for no reason?

Answer 1

When somebody just ups and leaves another person, its not for lack of reason. There has to be something that caused them to act or react in the way they did. From the perspective of the one who was left, he/she really does believe the other left for no reason; everything was fine, we were doing so well, I can't understand why he/she did this. Let me assure you, there was a reason. You may not understand it at this time, but you may if you use some critical thinking skills. I am not saying this to be hard on you. This very thing happened to me when I was younger. She loved me until the day she left me. I said the same thing, "I just don't understand it... why?" Well there was a reason. She simply left me for another man. Gee, how novel! However, when I looked back, I saw that I had become a coach potato, did not watch how I dressed anymore, became somewhat moody, temperamental, etc. Instead of trying to work it out, she decided just to leave. Now this may have nothing to do with your circumstance, however there was something that fostered this behavior. You should try to introspect, and attempt to understand what may have caused this for your own well being and self improvement if any is indeed necessary. On the other hand it may have been nothing about you, but something about he/she. Maybe your the perfect mate! However, something in the other individual snapped. Still, there has to be a reason, whatever that reason is. If this is going to affect you in a negative way, then you need to search for the answer, but with using the most appropriate approach.