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The end of high school is a time of transition. What do you plan on doing with the rest of your life? You've got more in front of you than behind you. Don't be embarrassed by the situation or by asking the question. What does it mean when he says that? Who knows? How well do you know this boy? And how long have you been talking to him? Do you know what his plans are after high school? What he wants to do with his life? There are two keys here. One is this: what do I want (and how will what I am considering fit into my future plans)? The other is this. I can talk to this guy and find out what's going on if I don't already know. If you don't know the boy really well, forget getting naked with him. Even if you know his favorite color, the name of his pets and have met his parents, you need to weigh the situation in light of what you want for the future.

You are at a crossroads in so many ways at the end of high school. A young woman. An adult? Well, what you are contemplating is, in truth, something that qualifies as an adult decision. Big time. The consequences for a bad decision are terrible. You'll have a loooooong time to regret it. Time to take a hard look inside and figure out what you want now and for the future and weigh the two together. That's generally what functional adults do. (And some don't to a very good job. Any adult will be able to relate at least one bad decision.)

You are at a point where either now or in the near future you will be saying yes in a situation like this. Who will it be? When will it be? The first question is powers of ten more important than the second.

If you opt in and find later you've made a mistake, you'll find that an error of this magnitude at this time will color the whole of the rest of your life. Seriously. And it's a sure bet that you won't like the hue.

Know what you are considering, and, much more importantly, who you are considering doing it with.

Good luck making your decision.

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