Is it considered cheating when your spouse goes to find an adult friend's websites?

Answer 1

It's normal for a man (or sometimes women) to look at porn either DVDs or magazines, but the big craze is obviously on the web. It's a fearful thought because some very normal people (may pick up a porn movie or read a magazine) are most private about it and keep it to themselves, and the problem with the net is anyone of us can be something we aren't, but deep down that little speck of "being bad" comes out in some people and makes them something they really aren't. It's a dangerous game. Cheating is cheating. If you look at porn on the web and that's it, I suppose it's the new modern age of porn, but if you are in contact with another woman or man, or have any part in a sex game it's cheating! Certain people can be addicted to porn. As I like to say, "There ain't nothin' like the real thing baby!" Yes, it's cheating! Why? Because he's lying to himself by thinking he's just curious, but that little speck of bad is growing into a great, big, fat dot!