Is it weird to have a crush on your teacher who's 20years older than you?

Answer 1

I wouldn't think of it as weird. If it's someone who has personality traits that you admire then there's no reason you shouldn't like them-- it could cause some problems, but only if you try to act on it. Honestly, I'm thirteen years old and have a crush on my 33-year-old English teacher. I keep thinking 'He's both insane and caring, two of about a million traits i love about him, but the only reason anyone might find it weird is because of his age.' I don't think it matters, but apparently the law does.

Answer 2

That depends on how deep the infatuation. If it is just a crush, and not an all-out obsession, then it isn't necessarily 'wierd.' However, if you are attempting to win the teacher's affections or are otherwise following him/her around, trying to figure out their likes/dislikes, then you are more than likely headed down a perilous road. Try to focus on people more your age. There are plenty of other, and possibly more beautiful/handsome fish in the sea!

Answer 3

I have the exact same problem that you have. Yes it is normal to fantasize about your teacher, especially if you are a teenager. I personally do it all the time and I am 13 years old. My teacher is beautiful and she has a great personality. It is fine as long as you don't do something inappropriate. When u leave their class, dnt worry, u will get over it very soon. this happens to many people.

Answer 4

Yes, it's normal enough. Just realize that it's not a crush that can be reciprocated. Enjoy the fantasy, but move on to a partner of your own age.

Answer 5

No but don't get your hopes up