Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend if they are the same sex?

Answer 1

No, of course not. Love knows no gender. The fact that they are your best friend only makes it even more beautiful. The two time's I've fallen in love, they were my best friends before they became my girlfriends. Try talking to her about it.

AnswerNo, but it can be very complicated. I fell in love with my best friend of the same gender a few years ago. It wasn't easy. I'm afraid I haven't got any advice for you, but hopefully someone else will. AnswerI know exactly where your coming from. Here's hoping your friend returns your feelings. I obsessed about my straight best friends for two years, finally one night I kissed him because I couldn't hold it in any more. He never spoke to me again. Get it out now.

Hon,

I can't help but feel for you too, i am absolutely head over heels in love with my best friend, im a girl, she's a girl, i dont consider myself bisexual, i've never been attracted to anyone but her, i've had boyfriends, but nothing is as good as her, don't tell your best friend, especially if their straight, it wouldn't eb worth the heartbreak. Could you imagine if everything changed and you had the option to just be happy with them as your best friend? I believe its normal, or at least understandable. Don't tell them, if you love him or her as much as i love mine, it wold kill you to hear they don't love you back, im trying to fall out of love but still have the same relationship, i suggest you try the same, before everything is ruined

Well I can say that this happened to me not too long ago. I am a 24 year old male who fell in love with my best friend who is also a male. It didn't happen at first but overtime I really developed feelings towards him. I always wanted to tell him but never found the chance. Until one day that is. After 4 years of thinking and wondering if it would ever be, I got up the courage and called him late one night and told him flat out. I was in tears and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I was scared to loose him as my best friend and didn't know how he would react. Well he simply told me that he was flattered but he likes women and that this won't change anything. It is kind of ironic because it didn't change at all on his part but instead I am the one who feels weird now. Even when he calls or txts me, I sometimes just hit ignore. It's a difficult situation either way but just remember that you can't help who you fall in love with and it isn't like you're doing something wrong. Be brave and tell the person. At least you will know the answer and let it be what it is. Time heals all wounds but mine is still pretty open.....

Answer 2

Love is a choice. One does not "fall into" or "out of" love. One CHOOSES to love another, or to NOT love another. Love is ACTIVE, not passive. Probably the most famous verse from The Bible is John 3:16: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." The point here is this "God so loved ... that He GAVE..." His great love DID something. God made the choice to love all, even the unlovable, because that is His nature... His character. Perhaps the question, therefore, might be better asked: "Is it wrong to choose to love some one who is the same gender?" This makes the question pretty easy, doesn't it? In one place in the New Testament we read, "Now there was leaning on Jesus' bosom one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved." We can deduce this is a reference to the Apostle John. Jesus loved John. It is not wrong to "love one who is the same gender." Sexual relationships within a gender... now that's another question There is nothing wrong with same sex marrige. If they love each other, its perfectly okay.