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No, but it encourages abuse.

If you concede to every single thing your mate wants, and they won't take "No" for an answer, you're in an abusive relationship.

It may not be that bad, you might be able to stop the abuse just by having a heart-to-heart talk with your mate, and having them agree to stop. Don't blame, and don't yell. Avoid terms like "you always" and "you never," and talk about your issues in terms of "I feel like." You have to get them to acknowledge that there's a problem before you can begin working on fixing it.

If your mate refuses to acknowledge that there's a problem, it's time to leave.

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