Well if you are financially and mentally (some people can't do without family) capable of starting your own life, then forget what they say. If you try and fail to convince them that they have to be nice to him coz he's a part of your life and that they should respect him because you love him, then you basically have two options, its the guy or the family. I think your case you'd go for the family.
If he's your boyfriend, he can't "disown" them because he doesn't "own" them; he's not family.
You shouldn't ever disown a member of your family.Regardless of what they do, their family should always be there for them. One's family is their innate undeserved support system. When something life altering happens to a person (ie. unplanned pregnancy, drug abuse, etc.) they need to know that they are not alone if they are going to get through it. Family is the most basic unit of society and therefore must thrive for government and such to function correctly/justly. We all mess up (big sometimes) and we all deserve a second chance. Friends leave, romance fades, but family is bound by blood forever.
I think that the girlfriend should definitely introduce her boyfriend to her family first.
No! If they offered, say no politely. If your boyfriend isn't there, you're just going to feel out of place.
You should wear casual attire when you meet your boyfriends family for the first time.
Many people do, and it should only be done as a last resort. You can disinherit them , avoid them like the plague, and anything else would require a lie. Blood is blood.
Wait till she's sinqle maybe you have a chance
You should be able to talk about everything. A boyfriend should be your best friend as well as your boyfriend. So you should be able to talk about planes, cars, girls, boys, family, friends, and everything inbewteen.
Yes. Havent you heard the saying that everyone needs a second chance.
no. at least not on the first holiday together. this should just be a time for your boyfriend to become part of your family. also if you do break up, then your family might still like to hang out with his family, and that could cause some unwanted drama
Go back home and live your young life with your family, then live with your boyfriend after you are married.
Be grateful you didn't marry into that messed up family. Send her a thank you note, because you found out just in time that your boyfriend is spineless and allows his family to manipulate him.