If you could say in general that he is moody, then based on my personal experience he may need to take Vitamin D in particular and Cod Liver Oil or Fish Oil in general. I'm not making light of your predicament. Your husband's description sounds like me to a T when I go for a month or so without my Cod Liver Oil. Moody, irritable, reclusive. Especially in the winter. Look up Vitamin D deficiency on Google and see if it matches your husband's behavior.
He loves you, but doesn't respect you.
If a husband's wife is a good and loyal person and makes a good home for her husband and any children they may have and the husband's parents are not good to her then the husband should always back his wife and it is up to him to have a private conversation with his parents that either they respect his wife or they will not be welcome in the home. However, if the wife is neglecting the husband's parents; being rude to them for no reason then it is still up to the husband to have a talk with his wife and to respect his parents.
Respect, is in fact, a subject unto itself. You can respect your parents, you respect authority, and respect other people, the environment, everyone and everything deserves respect. Lack of respect for things leads to chaos, and ill will.
You respect your parents by honoring in what they say or do, even if you don't agree with them.
first you have to learn how to respect yourself then respect your husband like you respect yourself.
Although children often do obey, care for and respect their parents there in no responsibility or requirement for them to do so. This is an earned response from children to parents who care for and respect their children.
The parents who are narrow minded & who always oppose their child's dreams are donkey parents. All parents love their child, but if parents will give respect to child then child will always give them respect.
My opinion: If you earned his disrespect you know why. If you don't know why, get another husband.
Ask the parents themselves
respect means to either acknowledge or honor someone with value. Eg to respect your parents-to treat you parents with value.
You have the right to not be abused. If he does not respect you then you are better off without him.
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