My initial responds to you was going to be no; however, lying is a classic trait of a Passive-Aggressive person.
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.
Divorse to husband , breakupwith boyfriend
Princess Sara's husband discovered the affair after several months of suspicion and investigation. He noticed changes in her behavior and eventually uncovered evidence that confirmed his doubts. The revelation led to a significant turning point in their relationship, ultimately affecting their marriage.
That's his responsibility. If he is still seeing her, the affair is not over. You can't control your husband. A spouse has the right to the respect, loyalty and faithfulness of their partner. If your husband can't control his behavior then you need to assess your status as his wife and whether you want your present situation to continue. Are you better off with him or without him?
ANSWER: Even if your husband is an affair material, that will not be his legit reason why he is having an affair. It can't be that he is not getting his needs at home, it will explain why he ask you to marry him if he will betrayed you.
No
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
If you're asking yourself whether you could have pushed your husband to have an affair with a married woman, the answer is "no." You simply do not have that power. Instead, it was a series of poor choices your husband made that most likely led to the affair. For instance, he decided to look outside the marriage for something he apparently needed. He decided to have an affair. He decided to ignore the marital vows of both your marriage, and those of the married couple's wife whom he had an affair with. So in short, don't blame yourself for your husband's behavior. He's not a child, and you are not responsible for his actions. That said, marital discord is very rarely, if ever, a single sided occurrence. Both parties are responsible for the maintenance of the marriage.
You cannot trust your husband as he is in it for sex and you are enabling his behavior. He is like a Tom cat doing as he wants while hurting you deeply and also using the woman for his own enjoyment. You are enabling his behavior and need to sit him down and talk things out. Make sure he understands you are not putting up with his affairs.
Yes, that is why he is having an affair.
An affair is a betrayal of trust, and it is very hard to be comfortable and intimate with someone (your husband or anyone else) when your trust has been betrayed.