Should my ex have left me alone when he emailed me after one year of no contact to tell me he wants to be a part of my life and he did not bother to write back after I responded?

Answer 1

• It sounds as if your ex is 'fishing' to find out if you have a relationship with someone else and his own relationship at that given time may not have worked out. He also may be egotistical enough to know if you love him still and you probably assured of him of that so he is free to keep you hanging. Yes, he should have left you alone after not contacting you after a year, but then you answered his email and must have made confirmation as to how you felt about him. It is better to go over the reasons as to why you both split up and decide whether he is worth waiting for. It would be even wiser if you did not contact him at all or respond to him contacting you because he sounds selfish and inconsiderate of you and you can do much better.