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What else can I help you with?
Should a woman stay in a verbally abusive relationship?
Nope. Because she she might get hurt even more. And the abuser might think it is ok to hurt them because they won't mind. Once they hit you, you should get out of that relationship.
Are there books and videos available for verbally abusive men who want to change?
* The best way for an abused man to move on from a verbally abusive relationship is to seek counseling. Just like women, men may have lost their self respect; feel demeaned and ashamed (they are suppose to be the stronger sex) and he needs to find out why he stayed so long in the abusive relationship. Without proper counseling just like women, men can choose another abusive partner in the future and don't have the tools to tell when rag flags go up that the person they are with is controlling at best and the worst .. verbally or even physically abusive. Men have been brought up to not hit women, so it is very often hard for the man to make sense as to why he put up with the abuse for so long. Men can be victims of abuse too and they should not blame themselves.
If your father is still verbally abusive to you at age 26 should you let your child spend the weekend with him?
No.
Should you break up with your boyfriend if he makes you feel guilty all the time?
Yes, you should leave the relationship. That is because he is somehow making you change your view of what you do with good intentions to be something wrong. Eventually, you won't be able to do anything right, and you will not feel good about yourself. He cannot be right all the time! Actually, this is verbally abusive behavior and you are caught in a vicious cycle. Read Patricia Evan's book, "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" for further insight.
Should a verbally abusive parent be disobeyed?
It depends do you think it's abusive or is it you just don't like what's being said you have to decide whether or not you should disobey your parent but if you there will be consequences for that so you have alot of options to weigh if they verbally abusive have you ever thought that maybe you might get some physical if you don't do what you were told so decide what your going to do
Should you leave your alcoholic mate he only gets verbally abusive if you nag him?
Absolutely! The only reason why I am still with my alcoholic is because he is not verbally abusive even when I nag him... However, emotional abuse is still an issue in the end and it's about how long you are willing to deal with it. My 2 cents
What should you not do when in an abusive relationship?
You Should Not Stay In That Relationship.
How can you make someone understand that just because she thinks she knows how to handle her husband's verbally abusive comments doesn't mean that she is not in a verbally abusive relationship?
Until she is willing to realize that she is verbally abused, there is nothing you can do. She may well have most of it under control, and, there is the possibility that her mate may not be well. Sometimes medications or certain diseases such as stroke, diabetes, depression, etc., can cause people to appear abusive. You're a good person to worry about her, but don't fight her, try to learn from her and where SHE is coming from. Let her know you are there for her. You'll gain more from her this way, then by telling her how she should act on this problem. Good luck Marcy
Is your boyfriend abusive?
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
When should a woman leave her obsessive controlling verbally and mentally abusive husband?
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if with a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?
It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.
How bad is it for a guy to control you?
Bad or good, it is better for a relationship if there is a partnership where kindness and interest in supporting each other's growth. Controlling behavior can deteriorate into verbal and physical abuse in time, and so it is seen as a red flag that you should get out of the relationship. You cannot ever measure up to the person's expectations. A good book to read on this is the Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans.
