Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
you should have left him 7 years ago
how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years
My long time partner, heterosexual, of 27 years has been having a 5 year affair with a co-worker whose husband is HVC positive from kidney dialysis. He does not know if the girlfriend has been tested or if she is intimate with her husband or others. We have been intimate since I did not have knowledge of the affair until two months ago. The affair is on going. Should he be tested for the virus?
why dont you tell him why you had the affair and then he might back off abit
My long time partner, heterosexual, of 27 years has been having a 5 year affair with a co-worker whose husband is HVC positive from kidney dialysis. He does not know if the girlfriend has been tested or if she is intimate with her husband or others. We have been intimate since I did not have knowledge of the affair until two months ago. The affair is on going. Should he be tested for the virus?
To be honest, if it was the first one, you should give him another chance, and if it doesn't work out again, then just ditch him. Also if the affair happened early out in the marriage (1-5 Years of being Married/Together) then I personally think that he would most likely do it again.
Personally, i would take him back. Listen to his reasons, but if you do not think they are good enough, don't go anywhere near him. He may still have real feelings for you, don't let them go to waste. ANSWER: I think this is up to you, if you can leave with it. How did your husband had this long affair without you knowing it or did you knew it all along. I don't know the whole situation of your marriage but you must really love your husband so it's okay for him to have a second life. There's some women that can not accept the affair of their husband, including me, but yours is been 4 years now and it sound like you and your husband are still together. Can you live your life knowing that your sharing your husband with the other woman? I can't but it did happened, and my husband ex mistress was happy to tell me that we are sharing one man. What about precaution when it comes to intimacy, does your husband protect himself so he wouldn't transfer some sexual disease to you. You need to really think about this, if you don't your husband will take advantage of you. And if his affair is been 4 years now, can you really believe him that he still love you completely.
No. He will probably get violent if he thinks you are trying to leave. So be ready. I'd get an internet boyfriend first, get with him, then leave your husband.
if he still loves you and you still love him then you could try and and work something out but i would leave him.:'(.it might be sad but he's been cheating for SIX years.
According to psychologist a boy should be able to leave the family nest and live on his own at about 17 to 18 years of age. A girl on the other hand should never leave her parents kitchen until she get married and move to her husband kitchen.
It depends how long you have been married for. If you have been married for more than 7 years then just try and work things out with your husband. Also, if you are older than 30 then it is wise to stick with him. If he swears he wont cheat again but then it turns out he does, then leave him. By the way im 14 years old lol