Unless you are still dating then no, I would move on and date others. Your ex is trying to be honest, but I've not met many men that actually resolve any personal problems they may have. It takes work! Some men feel if they don't deal with it, it simply goes away. By hanging around waiting for him, you are enabling him to take his time in resolving these problems. If you are part of the problem, then both of you should seek help as a couple. If not, then let him have his time to sort things out and you continue on with your life. If you are meant to be together you will be.
I was married before, got divorced and started back into the dating circuit and then met a man younger than myself and that had never been married before. A few years into our relationship when things got serious, he got scared and he walked away from our relationship. I did understand his concerns. I was stunned because he never once mentioned any problem between us and we got along well. I was broken-hearted, but moved on. I worked, went out with friends and started to date again. 6 months later I got a phone call from him and he'd really missed me and wanted to see me again, but there was no commitment there. I told him bluntly that he was a grown man and if he couldn't come back into the relationship with commitment to keep on walking! Well, we got back together and a short time later we were engaged and a year later married. I just wanted a quiet ceremony with a few friends to celebrate (since it was my second marriage) but it was my fiance that wanted to get married in a chapel with all the trimmings! LOL So, we did. We had the party of a lifetime! We have been happily married almost 34 years. So yes, there is hope for both of you, but please, don't sit around waiting for him to make up his mind.
Good luckMarcy
AnswerWhy shouldn't you wait if you LOVE this guy? AnswerTake a survey and ask women how they waited for some guy to make up their mind and found out they had been made total fools of, when they realize the guy was out dating (usually more than one woman) and giving her a line. You'll have your answer then. That movie "What's Love Got To Do With It?" is so true. It's respect. If you can't make up your mind then you should be honest with the other person and set them free emotionally until you can make up your mind what you want out of life.Marcy
stay friends and then amke up your mind about what you really think of the person
you neer know if the relationship is going to last so you really can't consider anything.
IF YOU HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP BEFORE.
Lesbians are no different that straight people who decide to live together. If the chemistry isn't there should be no problem with the relationship.
You should try to work it out and see if you and mate are ment to be together. You should try to work it out and see if you and mate are ment to be together.
No. If you have to ask an online service for an opinion, it's not much of a relationship.
according to the law in most areas, no. you should consider his intentions and yours before entering into a relationship with him. ultimately, no one but yourself can answer that question for you.
A woman should NOT enter into a relationship when she is unready of herself. It takes years of experience in order for anyone to find out who they truly are and what they truly want. A relationship should consist of medium dependency, equal arrangements, working together, being honest, communication, etc.
If they maintained a good relationship after the divorce or had any children together she should be included.
As soon as it's obvious that you can't resolve it.
No! Pray about it and let them go... If God wants you to be together and you are meant to be together, you will be when the time is right.
Yes, but try therapists until the issue is resolved. There is likely a problem that professional help can resolve. Do not give up, try as many as it takes to resolve the problem. Sex is natural and enjoyment with your partner should be natural as well.