Alrightythen. After 20 years, that woman is probably really truly bored. I mean go to bed at 7pm bored. In a marriage, both have to work and make things new. I don't care what, a successful marriage that blows everyone's skirt up and shorts down is darn hard work! SO MISTER. Ask your wife 2 weeks in advance to go out to dinner. I mean not to Mickey D's, I mean a place with waiters in tux shirts at least. THEN DO NOT MAKE A MOVE. That's the key. See, she will be thinking "OHHH, he WANTS some in payment for that dinner!" A HA! You don't! Well, you do really, but you treat her just like it was your first date. Then, you do the same thing again - now in between, NO grabbing her butt, NO brushing accidentally on purpose against her breasts, NONE OF THAT. Mail her really lovely cards - or better yet, make your own and mail them - do NOT stick one on the refrigerator! Okeydokey now. You have the third date coming up. Make sure it's a restaurant where you are seated in a booth in a shadowed corner - and you behave yourself, and wait and see what she does all by her lonesome. OH - most important! NO ROSES unless they are her fave - get her a single gardenia. Wow. You'd better have a room - or a roomy back seat! Enjoy!
Widower
No Menelaus seemed only to want his wife Helen back.
The man wanted his kidney back
When she loses interest in him and is seeing someone else.
Tell her husband to watch his back.
Yes you can wife from back in Islam
soda would probably want: his parents back, mickey mouse back( his horse), and sandy to be his wife.
He is greedy and selfish, only thinking about HIMSELF! Do not allow it as he is the ONLY winner! Get someone to blow a whistle on him as his current wife will not believe you.
You cannot force someone to do something they do not want to and if you were "horrible" to her as you put it then she may have not been cheating on you its seems she is just moving on with her life and does not want to be with you.
A man who's wife has died is a widower. He is also bereaved, sometimes "the surviving spouse". If her death results from him killing her he is an uxoricide.
Because he is ashamed of not being rich as his wife's family.
* What makes you think she even wants you back! You've hurt her deeply and she isn't a piece of furniture you trade off! It's time for you to go somewhere quiet and start thinking of what you want and where you want to go in your life and realize some of your actions hurt other people. Don't land back on your wife's door step simply because it's a convenient place to go because you affair didn't work out. You have to decide if you really love her and if you do then work to earn her trust back before moving back in with her (if she'll take you back.) You have broken that bond of trust which is very difficult to get back and it will take a long while for your wife to ever trust you again. You managed to have the affair and walk out on your wife, so it shouldn't be too hard to be honest with your mistress. Tell her the truth ... you want to go back to your wife; then pack your bags and leave, but, be sure you have somewhere to stay and don't depend on slipping back in the doorway at your wife's home.