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Sometimes life throws us a curve and we don't much care for the change, but what we don't always realize is its usually the best thing that could happen to us and is a warning to move on. In the case of your ex-girlfriend I think you are getting a warning. Although there are some long distance relationships that work out they are few and far between. Jealousy most often rears it's ugly head. One doesn't know if the other is dating someone while they are away. Personally, I wouldn't get involved in a long distance relationship. There is nothing better than seeing that person in the flesh. Your girlfriend is being selfish and wants it all her own way. There is nothing wrong with her wanting to move, but she should be more honest with you. If you truly love someone then you try to find ways of staying together. She could have asked you to move out where she was going, or made plans for both of you getting together some weekends or on holidays. Since it doesn't appear she is thinking along these lines I would be very aware of the fact she has no regard for your feelings and is not as in love with you as you are with her. Even through the pain of losing someone you love, hold onto your dignity. Have a chat with her and say something like: "I wish you all the luck in the world, but I don't care for long distance relationships, and I feel we should both be free to date other people." If she really cares for you the thought of you dating another girl will drive her crazy, but if she doesn't respond to your comment or doesn't make much of a fuss then she isn't going to miss you as much as you think she will. Either way you'll win ... you'll be hurt, but you'll hold onto your dignity and by doing so you will meet another girl that is really meant for you. Good luck Marcy
What else can I help you with?
Is Bobby Sherman Mormon?
No he is a Narcissist and only believes in himself.
Is a narcissist a sociopath?
Research believes yes and they are still looking for it.
What is someone who you A pathological liar and believes they are the best thing going?
a scumbag narcissist
After a breakup is a narcissist less likely to contact you if he or she believes you have figured them out?
If they know that you have figured them out, they will not want to be around you for fear that you will tell people the truth. What they really need is help for their problem.
Which Muslim group believes in a more personal group believes in a more personal and mystical relationship with Allah?
The Sufis
Does the narcissist discard you permanently if he believes you cheated on him?
I have a former friend who is an insecure narcissist. Because he treated his wife so poorly, she cheated on him with someone who could provide her with the emotional support that he withheld from her. Upon learning that she cheated on him, he rejected her. Later though, he begged and pleaded for her to return to him. Luckily for her, she did no such thing. And why would she after the horrible things he said to her?
How does islam feel about family relationships?
Islam believes in a strong family relationship. They believe a strong family is essential in society. The Quran believes a husband and wife is one of love.
If you know people who are being hurt by a narcissist should you out the narcissist?
Yes, I believe you should out the narcissist. You have to think of your own mental health. I am presently trying to break away from one and his insistance of his love and devotion makes it hard. I am digging my heals in deeper and I am insisting that he seek help before any reconciliation is possible. He of course, believes that he does not need any professional help. I will continue to hold firm with that decision until he will probably give up and move on. you can to help the victim
Why do abusers in a relationship show you or tell you in some way or another that they are going to abuse you mine started by saying that i do not know her and i dont have the experience?
Tell her she is right! Simply stated, she just told you that she is narcissist! Believe it. You are talking to the false self of your Narcissist. Her real self is hiding behind her mask. she is also projecting on to you that your are ignorant and inadaquate to decern the truth, that you are are easily fooled and can be manipulated by her at will. She believes that she holds the power over you and that you will do anything she wants you to do without question or else she will cut you off from her approval. GET READY TO BE DISCARTED. Better still laugh in her face. Your welcome:imaloneskywalker@aol.com
What do you do if your boyfriend is asking other girls out for juices?
You should discuss whether he believes that he is in an exclusive or an open relationship with you. You can then decide whether his concept of the relationship agrees with yours.
What is an antidisestablishmentarian?
An antidisestablishmentarian is a person who believes that the Church of England should retain its formal constitutional relationship with the state.
Why can't the narcissist stop lying?
The narcissist has become so disillusioned that he believes in statements with no logical basis. == Lying is a trait and vehicle which narcissists have acquired for self-preservation. It is a cover that works time and again until their credibility is impeached by facts. Because a narcissist doubts himself and has little or no self- regard, he doesn't believe anyone else will accept him also. Lying props him up to the outside world. However, when his cover is blown and the truth rears its ugly head, the narcissist is so ashamed that he withdraws from the person who exposed the truth about him. prior to the exposure of the truth, the narcissist believes no one will ever know, and is completely overwhelmed that his lack of integrity is exposed. he does have a conscience, generally concerning what others think of him. when he realizes his reputation has been tainted by his lying, he cannot accept responsibility for his own self-destructive behavior...ever! he rationalizes it is that disloyal nasty person who found him out and couldn't keep a secret. distorted thinking is a form of lying also. "when you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas.'
