What do you do when you've fallen out with youre best friend?

Answer 1

firstly just chill watch something you enjoy that will take youre mind off it for a bit,then read some magazines and just chill out.After a thew hours try ringing her,checking she's in so you can explain youre self ,during the conversation never try to hit back at her,even if you really want to.be a woman and show her that you are capable of standing up and facing up to the fact that you are the one to blame.After that have a long chat about school,boys and all the usual just to settle everything down,try and suggest something such as going out for Pizza or something you know she likes doing.

2.By now all that shall have been forgotten but read below if youre friend had not been in the night you wanted to talk to her about the argument or if she just didnt forgive you even though you tried last night.

3.don't try and section her out or gang up on her,this can make her feel really uncomfortable and just make the situation worse.Dont try to explain youre self to her again or ask for a word,just let her settle down and do what she wants to do,also avoid treating her diffrently from all youre other friends,a friend knows when all youre trying to do is make her jealous.

4.pop round to her house if she yet hasn't forgave you don't talk about the argument or bring bribes such as chocalates or makeup,just watch a movie and eventually start talking about someone you both hate at school that should cool things over for a bit,don't expect to be best mates straight away just talk to her and get used to being around her for a bit and sure enough you will be friends again.

Just remember don't make it into a big thing and don't get anyone else involved in the argument. True friends can fall out but they always make up. If you're friend doesn't want to make up then just leave her for a while to cool and to release her anger. Try to be a good friend! :)

Answer 2

You need to decide if its really worth to put the effort for being friends again. Try talking them. Or maybe ignore them for a day and see their reactions. Don't be to clingy, they won't want to be friends again if your to clingy all the time! If they look at you smile and see if they smile back. If you have done something very wrong to upset them maybe get a little gift for them or invite them over and go shopping maybe or whatever you like to do! HINT: If this isn't working, just think I have plenty of other friends there is no point wasting my time on trying to make this girl/boy my friend again, I will just spend more time with my other friends and sure enough you will forget completely about the other girl/boy you fell out with!

Answer 3

Well I always go up to one of the fighters and ask for their opinion of the story, and then go to the other fighter and ask their side of the story, then get together but keep them away from each other and just ask them what happens, then if they keep arguing go to a teacher, or just ask them to stay away from each other, don't talk to each other say if it happened on Tuesday, tell them not to tak for the rest of the week and then start forgetting about the start of next week. Well that's is what I do anyway, once my 2 bff's were falling out and I could NOT get them to be friends again, it was like arrg!

Answer 4

I have lots of experience with this, give them a month and maintain minimal contact. If they become your friend again wait six months and then back stab them like me or let by gones be by gones, if they are hostile then tear em down!

Answer 5

Well it depends if you made it happen or she did. If she did then she should call you, if it was you you should call her, and apologize.

She made it happen but today she started to be horrid on a website! shes not woth bothering about but thanksxx

Answer 6

* It depends how serious it is and why you are no longer friends. If it was over a silly argument then try calling them and meeting with them and either be big enough to apologize and let them know that an argument isn't worth losing a friendship over. If the matter is serious such as criminal activity; over one of you interfering in the other's private life where one shouldn't then it may be best to move on. You have to decide if this person is still worth having as a friend.

Answer 7

You know my best friend?