What do you do when you are married and in love with someone else?

Answer 1

First - you've gone too far already! You need to talk with your wife and get some counseling. You committed to spend your life with your wife - cheating is wrong. Think back to why you got married in the first place. In many cases people cheat because they are bored or they are seeking something new and exciting. Marriage isn't always exciting. It can be a lot of work, but it can be incredibly rewarding.

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Per Islam religion, it is heavily sinful to be married and fall in love with another. You should be honest and frank with your licit wife. Tell her and resolve it through either one of three possibilities:

1. restoring good relationship with your wife and breaking totally with the one you fell in love with.
2. Divorcing your wife and marrying the other one
3. marrying the other woman that you fell in love with as a 2nd wife and dealing with both the two wives fairly and equally.

Answer 2

You need to think to yourself are you happy with you husband and if not is this man the right person and if he is love is love do what is right for you because in a few year you might be unhappy with you husband someone always gets hurt in a relationship

Answer 3

Ooooh! that is hard!

Being in love is different to any other feeling a human can have. I am not married, and I doubt I ever will be. The man I love is going into the army, and there is nothing I can do to stop him. He thinks I'm a stupid girl, but I am not. I know how you feel, but the person you have fallen for could be someone you feel emotionally attached to, and you want to protect you and have in your life. Let me tell you something. Don't mess it up. Whoever you're married to you must be married to him for a reason. And 'falling' for someone is not like being in love. Trust me.

I hope you find your hearts desire and make the right choice. I'm sorry if this advice doesn't help you too much, but I think first hand experiences are the best. Just don't blow it.

Good luck xx

Answer 4

You either try to get over it or you could see if the other person likes you back. It also depends on how long you've been married to your spouse and how long you've been in love with the other person.

Answer 5

There are alot of factors that should be considered. If your feelings for someone else is stronger than the feelings you have for the person that you are married to... then maybe you should consider how your life would be without your spouse. Would you be okay emotionally, financially, are you better off being married, than running off on some infatuation or feeling.

If you are newly married, like a few days or months... then maybe you should not have gotten married to the person that you are married to and maybe you should break it off. But, if you have kids and your children are with your spouse, I don't think that you should break up their happiness and stability... their home.

However, if this is an abusive home or something of that nature maybe the kids would be better off if the home was broken up. If not, and the home is happy and safe and the only problem is you not being happy because you are in love with someone else, then maybe it is time to sit your spouse down and discuss what's been going on inside of you.

Answer 6

You can either marry the new person and divorce your current spouse, or attempt to get over this new flame and leave your marriage intact.