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STAND STRONG. Why have you been letting your husband and son treat you like this for 3 years?! Your husband is probably calling you names because he knows that you won't fight back. When your husband calls you names or does anything bad, let him know that you won't stand for it and that it's a privilege that he has you, and that that privilege can be easily taken away. I'm not saying you have to divorce him, but you can live somewhere else, maybe with a friend, for a while, so he can see what it's like to live without you. As for your son, you have to tell him that you're his elder, and that he cannot treat his elders that way. Also make it clear that you can call the police and report abuse because he's emotionally abusing you.
What else can I help you with?
Should you hunt down the woman that had an affair your husband?
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
Can a wife really love her husband if she's having an affair?
No. A woman would only cheat on her husband if she doesn't love him. Love begets respect. Once a woman cheats, she has lost her respect towards his husband and once her husband learns about the cheating, no doubt there will be no more respect left inside the marriage. The last I read from the American Association of Psychologists said one night stands are nothing more than an extreme form of masturbation.
Was Christi Paul married when she was involved in the affair and what was the outcome in her marriage because of the affair if she was the one that was married?
Yes, Christi Paul was married when she was involved in an affair. The outcome of her marriage was significant, as she ultimately divorced her husband. The affair played a role in the breakdown of their relationship, leading to their separation.
Who needs to enhance the romance to save your marriage you or your husband who had the affair?
I am sure you heard this before, but here goes again It takes, both of you and a marriage councelor...
Can you make your marriage better than ever after your husband's affair?
No. He lied to you about love. Sure, you can forgive him, but that won't fix what he did.
Do you really think you can have a happy marriage after your husband's affair?
It depends. you have to decide if you will be better with him or without him, and whether or not you are prepared to forgive him.
Could you have pushed your husband to have an affair with a married woman?
If you're asking yourself whether you could have pushed your husband to have an affair with a married woman, the answer is "no." You simply do not have that power. Instead, it was a series of poor choices your husband made that most likely led to the affair. For instance, he decided to look outside the marriage for something he apparently needed. He decided to have an affair. He decided to ignore the marital vows of both your marriage, and those of the married couple's wife whom he had an affair with. So in short, don't blame yourself for your husband's behavior. He's not a child, and you are not responsible for his actions. That said, marital discord is very rarely, if ever, a single sided occurrence. Both parties are responsible for the maintenance of the marriage.
How can I explain my affair to my husband and that there was no intimacy?
You will have to think very clearly about telling your husband about having an emotional affair. Most men do not believe a woman can have an emotional affair and not have a sexual relationship. There is a high possibility that your husband may not believe that when you had an affair there was no sex involved although this is highly possible, but not in his mind. What you can do is learn good communication skills and you must have had your reasons (that clouded your judgment) to have an affair and you need to deal with these problems. Take time to think why you felt the need to have an emotional affair in the first place and then sit down with your husband and express why you are unhappy in the marriage and perhaps seek Marriage Counseling or the two of you could make a better effort with each other to make your marriage a more solid one. Once you have broken that bond of trust with your spouse it is difficult to gain their trust back.
What do you do if your husband has had an affair for 4 years with one of your best friends and you find out that your husband is the father of a child born out of this affair?
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
Does a man always get custody when there is an affair?
No, a man does not always get custody. If one of the people in a marriage has an affair, it is usually the person not having an affair that gets custody of the child or children.For example, if the husband is having an affair, and the wife wants a divorce, the woman (wife) would get the custody of the child or children, and not the man (husband). This is the same vice versa, too.
Does your husband expect his wife to just forgive and forget that she caught him in a 3 year affair when he tells her to either get over it or get on?
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
A married male pastor has a 4 to 5 yr affair with a married woman he is counseling who is not involved with the church does the woman's husband have grounds to sue after the breakup of his marriage?
Yes the pastor can be sued by the husband for breaking up his marriage on adultery grounds.
