What does it mean if I love and support someone and have done everything for them and I get no love or much affection back and they say they love me but never show it but they dont break up with you?

Answer 1

It means they are using you for some reason which may not b so clear to you right now. it could b for security, convenience, finances your good looks something. but don't worry about it take a look at yourself and access the situation and try and cut loose. it is extremely hard and may even appear impossible and chances r it is impossible, but you must atleast try. All the best

Thanks, that's what I was affraid of. We talk about future, kids, home, trips and yet we've barely had sex once on my birthday, but she has always turned her head occasionally to kissing, never says anything sweet either verbally, text or email.She lives 2 hours away and I always make the effort to go see her every weekend, she isn't seeing someone else, she knows I'm in love with her, but treats me like nothing more than a good friend. We sleep in the same bed, but never any sex...i ask point blank to just say iso if she doesn't want me, ask her if she loves me and she says yes but I don't think she does/ her mom says she's a good and true person, but I suspect her mother doesn't really know her as well as she thinks.

Should i dump her, as hard as that would be to do? i cant seem to get her to talk to me about it, always changes the subject, she's good at that