What if the person you married never argues with you?

Answer 1

That would be Heavenly! You could try to live in this seeming state of bliss and suffer through the boredom. This is not blissful and can cause as many problems as if a mate argues with another. Such people dislike confrontations (they could have come from a family background of arguers) and become "tone deaf" and let us not forget "wife deaf!" Arguing never solves anything, but it is a part of life and sometimes people just have to blow. It's important that after a couple argue they should go their separate ways for an hour or two to cool off and then come back and talk things over and it's called COMMUNICATION. Being in a relationship is about learning from each other. I am full of passion and can get a little hot-headed at times and my husband is laid-back (almost to a fault), but he learns from me to make a stand when something is wrong or unfair, and I have learned from him to think before I say something. Yes, after 34 years of marriage we have our arguments, but we have learned to stand back and cool off and then we sit down and discuss the problem like two adults. People who never seem to get mad, are extremely calm at all times are "controllers of themselves" and it's simply not healthy. They harbor too many feelings inside (they never express themselves) and this can cause diseases such as Heart disease in especially men and some women. It may also lead to something more deadly in the future such as person exploding into a rage because of all the pressure and self control over their feeling in the past. We all need to find a way to deal with stress and arguing is not the way to go.