I refer to my wife, as my wife, until my friends and coworkers learn her name and then I refer to her by name. I think most people do that...
Could be a little bit of her conciouss getting to her. I say, what's good for the goose is good for the gander, in your case, what's good for the gander should be just a good for the goose!
MAKE SURE HE IS NOT CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Are you, not really your trust towards your husband has been destroyed by him. Some of us when we lie, for us to get out of trouble we cover the first lie with another lie, until you can't get out anymore. You have a reason why you don't believe and trust your husband, and it will take you a while before that trust can be given back to your husband. Why don't you let your husband have lunch with his friends that work with him but suggest to him that you want to join him so you can meet this coworkers his planning to have lunch. Stay cool as you can, you will see his reaction. Ask him when and where the lunch is, so that way you can visit them. You can if you want tell your husband that you want him to take you so you can meet those friends of his, but do this the day before it happen so he can't warn who ever it is his going to have lunch with. And if you can do this and his really with a few friends, then give your husband a little trust, until he become the husband that's worthy of you... good luck!
you keep on calling him.
yes it is ok to complement a friends husband.
It means you love and miss your husband.
Keep the wedding parties short (2 is ample) and they don't have to be best friends, you can choose coworkers or people that have played an important role in your life. My husband had his sister as his best (wo)man and it was a wonderful wedding. Buck tradition, do what feels right for you!
He is probably being sneaky.
He is suspicious about who you are calling.
her husband
it would be fine if you husband is encouraging you to. every one must have friends right? and your husband never said that you couldn't get guy friends so why not?!
Don't involve other people into this matter. First and foremost, you need to sit down and talk with your husband. You are right- a female coworker calling your husband for something other than business, especially in the middle of the night, especially drunk, is certainly not alright. You don't have to be accusing, but you do need to make it clear to him how you feel about it. He is the one she is calling. He needs to be the one to tell her to stop.