If you don't want to keep the relationship a secret, than tell him so. If he still wants to keep it low, than ask him why.
It may be because he's not ready to tell his parents about you two,
He may not want to tell his friends he's dating you,
He may have a certain type of reputation he wants to keep that a relationship may ruin,
He may just be into sescrets,
Either way, it's usually not a good, healty relationship if either party has any reason to keep it a secret, so I suggest you let him know it's not okay with you that he won't be open about you. If he still wants to keep it hush-hush than leave him, he's not worth it.
He wants to move upstairs.
It most likely means is he wants you close to him, and he wants to have a close relationship to you.
He's not your boyfriend anymore, for whatever reason he's ended the relationship.
dress up for him
You can get a boyfriend any time you feel like it, it also depends on if the guy wants to be in a relationship too. It doesn't matter what age, you can have a boyfriend. :)
You just hug him its ok
Put your stuff in his closet.
Hes getting tired of the relationship
Tell your boyfriend how you feel about it.
Because he wants to end the relationship as least painful and possible, and still wants to be your friend.
It means he's interested in you, and wants to take your relationship further. Only let him if you are comfortable with it.
just tell him that if that's the only reason he wants you, he can say goodbye to the relationship