What to do if your husband love another girl?

Answer 1

Move to another state to save your marraige. If there is temptation, get away from it or your marraige will suffer. If moving just isn't possible, get into therapy with your husband. Start going out on dates every week and make dates where you can talk (no movies). Do something different, have sex in the car in some secluded place, rekindle the romance, do anything you can think of. Your husband is getting bored and his eyes are wandering. I agree. I think it's a good sign that he was open and trusting enough to share the fact that he has feelings for someone else. It sounds like a cry for help that he's suffering from temptation and is asking for your help in resisting it.

Answer 2

Well then you shouldn't have married him if he loved someone else! If you just found out he loved someone else, then talk about it with him and if its true, ground him from being with this other woman/man. If he still loves that person, i guess ya gotta get a divorce, sorry :(

Answer 3

• 'You' have the control over your life and not your husband! He has taken control and you are enabling his behavior. Going to a marriage counselor would be helpful for the both of you. Often men in their 40s go through Andropause which is similar to women's menopause and some men want to regain their youth; see if other women are still attracted to him; he may want to be free and single, but feels guilty about it when he has a wife and possibly children. He is torn in his feelings. However, he has to agree to get some help either by seeking professional help (good physical to start with and blood work-ups) and counseling from a psychiatrist or, marriage counseling and if he's not willing to do either then you are going to have to risk getting him to leave your home. If you do not then you are enabling his behavior. If a woman shows independence (no matter how much she hurts inside) and that she can get along without him it may come as a great shock to him; enough so he may feel life at home is worth staying for.
  

Answer 4

If i were in this position, i would pull him aside and say "i think we need to talk" or something like that. Then if you say i think your falling in love with someone right to his face then you might get the real truth or maybe not. If he says says he isn't and you still think he is lying put your foot down, and really try to get the truth out of him :)

Answer 5

He loves his mother too, but hes not with his mother either

Answer 6

Your husband leave the house. He may want to leave but make him mad.