What to do with an abusive husband?

Answer 1

First of all, if your being abused, get away from the man that's doing that to you. No one should ever get beat or threatened. Usually, men abuse women because they want something you won't give them, such as sex or money. If that's the case, don't give in. When your alone, call The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline, 1-866-331-9474. They're open 24/7. And whatever you do, don't confront your abuser. Get away from them immediately. Get a divorce and move out of the state if you have to. Don't let him treat you that way, don't let him make you scared because that's exactly what he wants: to make you scared enough so you give in to whatever he wants. Get help, call the police.

Answer 2

I was verbally abused for years and never even realized it. It seemed I could never please him and if I actually did, he found something else wrong for me to "fix". One day on Oprah or Montel I saw a guest who was an author and she was talking about all the symptoms of an abusive relationship. I immediately went out and bought her book and my life changed for the better from then on. The title is really strange but I highly recommend this book. It's "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Barbara DeAngeles. After I knew how to react to the verbal abuse, my husband (now ex) never knew what hit him! It was great!

Answer 3

First off is he verbally abusive or physically abusive / If it's physically, why are you asking how to cope with it. In my opinion noone has to cope with that kind of garbage. Im not telling you what to do, but I personally would get out of the marriage now before something seriously wrong happens, and I think you know what Im talking about. Im not a psychology professional or anything like that, But I grew up in a home with a severe physically abusive father, so I have a strong idea of what you are going through. Just one last thing, get some legal help from the police, a lawyer, department of social services, someone, anyone. Just don't "wait and see if things get better", more often thatn not, they don't....

Answer: Please, please I beg you to get professional help. There are so many professional organizations out there to help you. Contact the police immediately to put a stop to this abuse, THERE IS NEVER A REASON FOR A MAN TO ABUSE A WOMAN, NEVER. Beating a woman is just not acceptable, beating one's mate is a gross sin in God's eyes. Contact Social Services for you and any children you may have. I sincerely hope this works for you.

Answer 4

Leave or seek help from one of the organisations that hep people in your situation. depending on where you are the police doctor or Salvation Army wil be able to help you get started by finding the right help for you.

Answer 5

divorce him

Answer 6

you dont