When will a wife get over her husband cheating on her?

Answer 1

Trust is one of those precious things that comes back smaller than it was before it left. When cheating occurs, trust is hard to recover and is never as strong as it once was. A wife who's husband cheats (or a husband who's wife cheats) will most likely never get over it entirely. She can try to put her marriage back together, try to believe in her husband, try not to blame herself, try to think of the future and not the past...but she'll always wonder each time he leaves the house. Each and every time.

Answer 2

NEVER!

B:

Gosh, this will be up to the man who did the cheating. In my own opinion, I don't think they ever feel guilty. Let's look at this way, if the married man will have this guilt I don't think he will have the affair.

Maybe there are some out there, no one knows. But for a married man to feel guilty cheating like I said he wouldn't have the affair.

Answer 3

Get over it? That's something only you can answer. You will probably learn to live with it, if you want your marriage to continue. Trust will be a big factor for a very long time, as it obviously is right now. I feel for you; there are no words that can comfort you at this stage. But IF you really LOVE HIM, and that's a BIG IF, then you will find a way to deal with the pain, humiliation, betrayal and every other emotional roller coaster this ordeal has put you and your loved ones through. Talk to him about your pain, your anger and anything else that bothers you, until you are satisfied that he GET'S IT. Slowly you will start feeling in control of your life again. That terrible knot in the pit of your stomach will start loosening up, and one day you'll wake up and life will back to normal. Till then hang on.

Another thing for you to consider is was it one affair or has he had multiple affairs? One affair is a mistake, while multiple affairs is a way of life. And while a mistake is one thing, a way of life is another, and may determine the outcome of saving your marriage.

If you truly feel he made a mistake, then you need to talk to him and find out why he did it. He needs to understand that he owes you that much, no matter how uncomfortable it makes him. His discomfort from answering your questions will be nothing compared to the pain you are feeling, so don't let him off the hook by not making him talk to you about it, and tell you as much as you feel you need to know.

He also needs to realize that you may feel the need to ask him questions (why, when, where, how, etc.) for a long time. But I do advise that you not drag it out for months and months. Talking about it and getting the answers you may feel you need is one thing, beating a dead horse is another. So once you do get the answers you need, then you need to move on from there and don't throw it up in his face once you've dealt with it.

Now, if he had multiple affairs, making it a way of life, that's going to be a whole different thing. He is human, and as such, will make mistakes (not that it excuses the cheating), and mistakes can, and should be forgiven. But if he's been cheating as a way of life, then you need to ask yourself if you will ever be able to trust him again, if you will ever be able to forgive him. If he has made it a way of life, the chances of him not cheating again are quite slim. So that is where you need to focus - was it a mistake which he now regrets, or has it been a way of life for him?

Answer 4

you can never get over that unless you still love that person

Answer 5

pray to God for help and the strength to not cheat

try counseling.......for the cheating and maybe marriage counseling.

Answer 6

depending onyour relationship it could take years monthes or just weeks but usually monthes