When you only cheated once about 10 years ago but are now surrounded by opportunities for no strings casual sex why would you think of going astray now?

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Maybe you don't relate as well as you used to with your wife or you feel she has lost interest in you or there may be other problems as simple as financial or other. Be the one to start turning this around. Tell your wife you apreciate the little things everyday, notice when she has a haircut and compliment her on anything, however small it may be. Do little things like buy flowers or bring home tea. You will soon find you are getting all the attention you need straight from her and won't crave it elsewhere. RESPONSE FROM sayhi2brent: Good advice, all of it. I have tried all that and more. Since my wife has been on a medication that, let's say, has destroyed her amorous tendencies, nothing seems to work. In speaking to her physician, she must be on this specific medication. So finding another one that works is out of the question. So it's not really her fault. It's frustrating, and I really feel badly about it. We're great partners in everything else in life. I'm trying not to be selfish, but it's so difficult. It's becoming more and more difficult to turn away beautiful women who want to do nothing other than have sex with me. I'm not sure where to turn other than to another woman.