Why affairs don't work?

Answer 1

• Affairs generally start by one of the spouses lacking something in their marriage such as the lack of sex; feeling loved or needed and when they meet someone to have an affair with it is common to talk about their feelings with that person. Therefore the person the married individual has chosen may feel badly for the person they are having the affair with or, they may feel that the person they are having an affair with (no matter how much they love that person) will hold no future for them. The individual who wants out of the affair is afraid of making a mistake; the sexual relationship may be good. Affairs can get messy and often end in heartache and often the loss of a spouse by divorce.

Answer 2

Honesty and trust are the hallmarks of a relationship that is going to last. Neither of those are true with an affair.