Why do black women hate it when white women date black men?

Answer 1

Answer 1

They are not, at least not a large amount of them. Being jealous is something that almost all women are going to experience of other women, regardless of race.

Answer 2

I think it is complete opposite. White women want to be cool like black women. Many listen to black female singers or epitomize female actresses/models. Many white women cannot even stand their pale skin color and regularly use fake tan lotions to look closer to black women in color. Although, most only come out looking fruity orange.

Answer 2

There have been many efforts to answer this question; unfortunately, most of them have been responses that give credence to the question asked. There is no credence to it. It's a stereotype which may be true in some very small numbers. Anyone who holds this view of black women is ignorant and judging on the superficial. If a black woman is expressing this sentiment, she is also ignorant and judging on the superficial. The phrase 'Why do black women...' infers that this is the view all black women. Any question about human behavior that infers a behavior for an entire group is always wrong.

Answer 3

For the most part, they don't.

When there are conflicts, it is often cultural differences, negative assumptions, or dating rivalry.

A girl of one ethnic group might consider a girl of another group stuck up, all because she carries herself in a way that is normal in her own culture. For instance, a number of folks are more independent and less social, and someone used to more social contact might assume such a person thinks they are better than others. Yet they may consider themselves equal and in that belief, they keep to themselves, since nobody is worth more than them since all are equal. It is like the salesclerk dilemma. If they help one person, they may be accused of treating the person like they are stupid or like they are going to steal. If they don't help a person, they may be accused of being rude or even racist. So it is easy to misread the cues of others.

Sometimes dating is a part of the rivalry. Many people feel they are entitled to date people of their own race, and when there are few acceptable choices available, they resent their rivals. It is a matter of basic economics. The more scarce the resource, the more value it has. In this case, a sense of entitlement and various beliefs may contribute as well. Some Black girls see White girls as privileged and able to get whatever they want, while perceiving themselves as disadvantaged. So if you think someone is from privilege and you see them taking what you feel is rightfully yours, you would at least feel indignation.

Answer 4

When someone says "Why do all (chose a group) (love or hate) something or someone" you can be sure of several things:

• They done't know everyone in the category they are complaining about
  
• They don't know if their position is correct for all of the group
  
• They may only have a confirmation bias (They only remember the few somebodies that meet the criteria they propose and ignore the rest)
  
• They have their own definition of love or hate

If the question were "Why do all red haired guys only like Chocolate Chip Cookies with ketchup?" the problems would be the same but they would be more obvious.

Answer 5

Not all do but there is a stereotype that white girls think they are higher up and deserve more than other races

Answer 6

They don't. Though there may be some, that doesn't account for all or most.