There are two reasons. #1 You are loyal and believe in the institution of marriage, therefore you feel guilty for having an affair and #2 Whether you realize it or not he has brain-washed you. You have always hoped he would change and accepted his excuses for cheating and put up with his verbal abuse. I too believe highly in the institution of marriage and I was married to a cheating and abusive husband as well. I have a Christian faith as well, so that was double trouble for me. I thought about it (but not for too long) and realized that in order to be respectful back to your mate or anyone else they have to earn that respect just as we do. Also, God didn't put anyone of us on this earth to take any type of abuse and if you've really tried and your mate won't try it's time to say, "bye-bye." I am so happy you have found someone else. Go for it! I left my ex and never looked back. I have been married to a wonderful man for 33 years and I am so glad I made the choices I did. Whether you have someone to run to or you are on your own, staying in an abusive marriage is a waste of life. I wish you luck. Marcy
If your husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, you can break the negative cycle by seeking the services of a family counselor or filing for divorce.
Through a lawyer.
by leaving him and staying in you mom's place.
#1. he is your husband and you need to respect him if he verbally abuseve then i would sugest to talk to him about it never hide things from your husband talk it over and if still does not listen then do something about it....and you know what i mean if he really loves you he will change
maybe because your so used to him calling your name all the time or aware/scared .
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
One word: Drugs.
Yes. You have no control over who accompanies him to such events. If he is abusive toward you then discuss the situation with your attorney and take the matter to court if necessary.
Yes. As soon as you can.
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.
counseling seems a better first step. find out what is making him so angry all the time and if you are willing to wait for him to get over it.
No. A husband with a cheating wife is called a cuckold.