Why does my husband suspect me of having an affair?

Answer 1

• Communication is the key in any healthy relationship so you should be asking your husband this question. He could be over jealous, or, he could have been cheated on before from someone else. There are just too many variables. Sit down with your husband and try to keep the conversation calm and get to the root of the problem.

Answer 2

* If you truly aren't having one then he may feel you aren't paying that much attention to him. Often couples get busy with work and every day life and forget to be affectionate to each other. Make the time! It's a good habit to tell the person you love at least once a day (and mean it) that you love them. If you are distant, don't communicate well and your sex life is not all that desirable then you should sit down calmly with your husband and communicate your feelings and allow him to communicate his without interrupting him and then resolve the problems you may be having.

Answer 3

• Often the person who protests loudly that their spouse is cheating could be cheating themselves and feeling guilty they are trying to deny what they are doing by accusing their spouse. You have the choice of sitting down with your husband and asking him to prove you are cheating and if he cannot he should drop it as you are getting tired of defending yourself. If this does not work then you both should seek marriage counseling. Sometimes husbands that have grown up in an environment where one or both parents cheated; or they have been cheating on by one or more women in their past may cause him to feel he should cheat first rather than wait for his spouse to cheat on him.

Answer 4

Sounds too me he is the one that has the cheating problem. He might be the one guilty

Answer 5

well, the one who's usually pointing the finger is usually the one who's doing the cheating.......it's a way of justifying what they're doing.

Answer 6

Insecurity , guilt