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DEFINITION OF NARCISSIST PRECLUDES NORMAIf it suits his purposes for "narcissistic supply" he could put in an academy award performance that he does for a burst. Well he hooked you with it before. Then as soon as you think he has got there (you know why it should be feasible him loving you back re what you offer and shared when he acted loving)he'll soon unfailingly recoil and find ways of shattering this notion and you with it, again.If he fits the criteria of a clinical narcissist, or has so many ongoing features of behaviours of a narcissist, the label makes it clear there is no capacity for such a person to reciprocate in a two way enduring love/constructive relationship.I hope no one calls some one a narcissist unless the person shows over time sufficient traits that the label is virtually unavoidable. Look up personality disorders and face the awful fact that these people do not change or very little. While there are other types of disorders they actually all share the "narcissitic trait" of no capacity to properly empathise -ever-, totally in chaos meeting their own needs, dealing with their fears and nothing can penetrate. They can act short term to get what they want at the time at best, but sustain nothing positive.So don't worry if your calling some one a narcissist is very close to some other condition if they realy fit virtually all of the criteria (leave that to clinicians)your common sense and experiences will tell you it fits.The fit comes with greater sorrow as there is no hope of a reasonable relationship than the relief of understanding the situation at first.There may be a few exceptional people who can make the choice to remain with such a personality disorder and enjoy what's possible from the limited parameters and function. Most of us try that to our ongoing detriment as it's so hard to let go of some one we fell in love with too much even as we try to let go.The only time it's excusable to refer to some one as a "narcissist" is in an early stage of a relationship that the potential warning signs of of a new partner show potential Narcissism and definite danger to motivate one to run away fast despite the charm. While the person may be a no go zone be cautious in where you share the label, best kept he seems like he could be a...
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How can you win your narcissist ex back if you still love him?

try not to change him learn to love the way that he is


Will a somatic narcissist ever come back after you dump them?

Not normally, but it usually depends on in which way you dump them


Narcissist in love with a narcissist?

It's certainly possible. A narcissist may date another narcissist that is more selfish than they are to feel better about themselves. In turn say "i'm not as selfish as he/she is so that makes me above him/her). It's incredible and shocking the way people with this disorder think. It takes a lot of research to understand a narcissist.


What is the definition of the Narcissist?

someone who thinks he is so handsome that becomes in love with himself.


Can a narcissistic love their children?

Can a narcissist truly feel love for his children? Indeed, it is not possible. Not in the way "normal" humans interpret the word "love"... Based on my book "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" (c) 2007 Lidija Rangelovska Narcissus Publications ---- Would anyone like to elaborate on what love is,in the way normal humans interpret?. I think I am narcissistic, but perhaps I am wrong in perceiving the analogy between 'the story of Narcissus' and the way I relate(/do not relate) to another. I think it could be argued, only because I am narcissistic I could ask such a question as to elaborate on what love is in the normal way. So,if I should give my definition of love, 'Doing favors equals loving'. What all does one consider as favors?, it could be anything I guess, but all I think I know is 'that which is similar between myself and another', and 'the way another differs from myself similar to the way I differ from that other'. I relate to another when I see in them what I see in myself. Do self proclaimed non-narcissists think 'You relate to another without seeing in them what you see in yourself'? _________________________________________ Its true that a narcissist can not love in a normal way a parent loves his/her child. From what I read and experienced (my father is a narcissist) they will only love at their own convenience. When they need that person they will love and do everything for them, but if they don't need them they are distant. This goes back to how everything only revolves around them. But in a way they only care about themselves.


How do you know a guy is in love?

If a guy is truly in love, then will know by the way he looks at her, acts with her and talks about her when she is not there.


When you are truly in love does it mean that the person you are truly in love with is truly in love with you?

Just because you may be truly in love with someone, there is no guarantee that they feel the same way about you. That's what we all hope for, but sometimes that may not be the case.AnswerUnfortunately, no. That is not the case. You can be truly in love with someone who does not return those feelings or, any at all, for that matter. The only thing that you can do is move on even though it may be painful for a while. It happens all the time. There will be someone down the road who will return your love.


Why are brothers so mean?

They are not mean. That is a brothers way of showing love to you. Love him back :) not mine he truly hates me


What do you do if you have reached an impassse with your narcissistic spouse and they are prolonging the silent treatment toward you?

Go to counseling. Rejoice! And again I say, rejoice! There is no silence more golden than a narcissist's. To not have to hear that annoying voice! It is truly heaven. Let me tell you how things work with a narcissist. They come from opposite land in Bizarro universe. The only way to get a narcissist to be nice to you is to (paradoxically) treat them terribly by ignoring them entirely. If the narcissist is ignoring you, you must have done something awfully decent and nice to deserve this. Do you see the impossibility of ever successfully dealing with and having a relationship with such a person? I would say, take immediate advantage of the impasse and the resulting silence by leaving the narcissist. No matter what you do, never pay any attention to the narcissist again, and don't talk or call or write unless forced by law to do so. The narcissist will always think of you, in the Bizarro universe way, as a wonderful person and will crave your attention, which you will never give. Thus exacting justice on the narcissist while taking back your life. Too bad you have to be mean to show a narcissist how wonderful you are, but you didn't start this thing. You should be the one to end it, though.


What do I do if my best friend doesn't love me the same way I love him and he has a girlfriend?

If you truly love him you will want his full happiness. If he is meant to be with his girlfriend he should be with her, and if he is meant to be with you then be patient because love will find a way.


How do you know when someone is truly in love with you?

there is never any way to be truly 100% certain, the only way you can known is if they tell you. there are signs; looks etc, but these can sometimes be misconstrued as attraction, friendship, not necessarily love. all you can do is wait for them to tell you or ask them


Will you get over your ex who is a narcissist?

Most people go through the heartache of losing someone they love whether they are a narcissist or not. Considering your ex is a narcissist you will begin to realize how lucky you were getting away from your ex. There is someone very special out there for you and fate has a way of forcing us down different roads of life to get something better in our lives. Hang on!

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