He is Okonkwo's Uncle. :)
Ebuka Obi-Uchendu was born in 1982.
Uchendu fulfills the archetype of the wise old man who prophesizes and warns of danger.
Uchendu speaks of suffering, and how everyone suffers, but only the good and the great are not broken by it. Later, Uchendu speaks of clan unity, and respecting the old customs.
Uchendu calls Okonkwo a child to highlight his lack of understanding and immaturity in handling his emotions and decisions. Uchendu believes that Okonkwo is acting out of fear and stubbornness, rather than wisdom and rationality. By calling him a child, Uchendu emphasizes Okonkwo's need for growth and introspection.
he's more like Obierika but Uchendu is lazy and more feminine.
Uju Uchendu-Ozoka has written: 'Women and national development' -- subject(s): Women, Women in development, Social conditions
Uchendu gathers his children and Okonwko for a meeting and tells Okonkwo of his duty to not let despair break his spirit. He says Okonkwo must be comforted by his motherland, not despondent. Uchendu finally speaks of his own suffering and his wives' suffering, showing Okonkwo that life goes on despite one's suffering.
Uchendu feels that Okonkwo is ignorant about the meaning of the mother supreme. Uchendu wishes to console Okonkwo, and bring him from his despair so that his family may survive the exile. Further, he wishes Okonkwo to not see the exile to his village as such a punishment, but rather as a safe retreat from his problems. Uchendu realized that Okonkwo did not understand what Mother Supreme truly meant, and was thus still a child. If the father does not know what it means, how can he pass it to his children?
It's to embrace your feelings!
Firstly he calls together his sons and daughters and then Okonkwo, his nephew. He then challenges any of them to speak if they think they know more than he does; no one speaks up. Secondly, he asks Okonkwo a question to which he does not know. When Okonkwo says he does not know, Uchendu calls him a child.
To enjoy life while he can
Uchendu meant that being exiled was not the end of life. Okonkwo had not completely disgraced himself and could recover given time.