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Some men/women do and some don't. I went with my first husband for 4 years, then we got engaged and married and then we split-up 3 1/2 years later. I left him and got a divorce. For several years I did think about him, but not in kind ways as he had hurt me deeply by being a womanizer and avoid of feelings towards others, including myself. Eventually, I began to feel as if this relationship had never happened in the first place. The true test came when I read in the paper that his younger brother had passed away at the age of 40 from a heart attack. I could have ignored this, but his brothers were great guys, and so, out of respect I contacted my first husband (who married his mistress, had two daughters and cheated on his wife until she set down some hard and fast rules) and we actually had a 1/2 hour conversation. I was sympathetic, because it was obvious my ex was in a great deal of emotional pain. It was like talking to an aquaintance I hadn't seen for years. It was an odd feeling actually. I am glad I made that phone call and also learned that hurt in a relationship does heal in time. Not always. I don't think about my ex at all. The only time a woman would think about her ex still, is if she had to break up because something he was doing was destructive to him/her or the relationship but still loved him. His actions forced her to make a decision that she did not want to make but had to. If she still loves or cares for him then yes, there will still be an emotional connection. It all depends on why she left. I would guess that now all but many women hold onto feelings for men they had real relationships with....if she really was in love with you I would say that she does think of you and perhaps regret that things went wrong. I was married to my wife for only 2 years before she asked me for a divorce. We had no children together and were lost to each other for 9 years. We are both married with children and have recently started talking. The love that we shared all those years ago is still there and in spite of our circumstances we can indeed tell each other that we love each other most passionately and will forever. My advice would be to write her a nice heartfelt letter, assuming that there is time between the breakup and now for her to think. Good luck my friend and don't be a wimp like me. If I had the guts to track her down and find out how she felt I would be with the woman I have loved from the begining of time.

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