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How does the narcissist come by his uncanny ability to psychologically penetrate others as Sam Vaknin describes?
There is no specific victim that succumbs to a narcissist. The N usually begins as a dream come true - pursues you, cares about you, wants you. Then when you start to get to know the N, you begin to see very strange things about him which eventually develop into major personality problems. I cared very much for the N I was involved with and I believed unwisely that I could help him. I was duped....he used me badly, physically and mentally abused me and had the uncanny ability to lead a totally separate life while we were dating...to include planning and carrying out ways to be with other women. Mature, caring adults just don't do those types of things. The N has many negative traits that include very dangerous, unhealthy reactions within his or her tumultuous, crazy lifestyle, i.e. paranoia, schizophrenic episodes, rage, envy, sexual promiscuity, constant need for adoration and confirmation...and they literally take your strength and pull it into themselves. This is because they truly are empty shells. You need to steer clear of these types of people. They are not mentally equipped to care about others, this is the professional diagnosis. They can only exist for themselves. Such a pitiful waste, and I do not mean this sarcastically. They truly they do not know any other thought process, therefore they plot and intricately plan within their minds to get as much from you as possible until you are no longer useful. They use coercion, pathological lying, calculated manipulation, etc. Curing them is impossible, only a major life crisis or perhaps clinical help can TREAT it. Later, I will be sending an email address for you to use for research. Stay away from these people, healthy people are not equipped to be with a N if they want to be happy in a relationship, and it is for this very reason that we are so cruelly used, it is not within our realm of thinking to fashion our minds in such a manner. Believe me, an N will cause you to doubt your own sanity. I am currently recovering from major trauma with an N, 2.5 years loving him to no avail. I start my first mental health counseling next week. I am still in mourning, still shocked, but learning and getting better. And I will not gratify him one bit by ever acknowledging him again. I will heal, I will see this as a mental disease and hopefully forgive, but until then and I can still love again, praise God for Him for I know that I deserve and will have better. Stay strong, understand the personality disorder, and make your life centered around good, caring people who can love. I am very sorry if you are involved with one. Get out and never speak to him /her again. This is a great site to read about Narcissism and the courageous, brave people who are recovering from time spent with one. Peace...mbme As a child, many narcissists had a narcissistic parent and had to develop coping strategies to deal with the parent. As a result, they are quite sensitive to others in some ways...not empathy, mind you, but understanding subtleties of your psychological make-up. That's why they tune in so well in the beginning; they are collecting info on you. Also, it helps them manipulate you, just like they had to manipulate their N parent to get what they want.
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Does radiation have the ability to penetrate through walls?
Yes, radiation has the ability to penetrate through walls depending on the type and energy level of the radiation.
What is Ares special qualities?
his ability to penetrate
What are Ares' special qualities?
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Are you being sarcastic?
No, I am here to provide helpful and accurate information to the best of my ability.
How does the narcissist develop the ability to psychologically penetrate his partner and is this action a symptom or a learned skill of the narcissist?
I have learned and do believe that N's have abusive and/or traumatic childhoods, that they have either seen or been subject to abuse. What they learned and experienced from either or both of their parents/or abuser developed them into people they are. To us laypeople, it is a confusing explanation, best look it up under ask.com...narcissism. Anything by Sam Vaknin is very revealing. Look for examples of what YOU have been through and match it up to his examples...it made perfect sense to me...certainly though I am not a mental health provider and there is lots of room for error. But the N's lack of empathy and all the baggage of their acts and their posing and their drama rings true under the definition of narcissism. Peace...mbmeRead the following link:The narcissists learns emulation skills and build their own "emotional resonance table" as to others people's reactions. Because narcissists are emotional vampires, they have from a very young age learned the actions and reactions of other people. Over time, they have developed their own state of mind as to how people will react to certain situations. They constantly read other people, and every move and action by the other person is taken in by the narcissist, and calculated by through their emotional resonance table.Also, abuse victims, which many narcissists are, develop what can be considered emotional and psychological antennae's. These antennae's were developed primarily in infancy, and can be thought of as a form of synesthesia. They were used by the infant to help them escaped the abuse that they suffered from. As the narcissist grows older, they continue to have these emotional antennae's to see into people's minds.But, everything depends on a reaction from other people. Narcissists are cold and calculating. They have an innate ability to penetrate the psyches of other people.====Maybe everyone has the ability to penetrate their partners mind... but they do not have the motivation. Ns use it because they have some sort of hate/thirst in them. Also Ns have experience in using that.Narcissist comportment is not conscious. In their head, narcissists are good guys, they hurt the other person because they "love them" etc... They do not have easy control over these actions.
Does castor oil penetrate the skin effectively?
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What is the relationship between the wavelength of microwaves and their ability to penetrate different materials?
The relationship between the wavelength of microwaves and their ability to penetrate different materials is that shorter wavelengths can penetrate materials more effectively than longer wavelengths. This is because shorter wavelengths have higher energy levels, allowing them to pass through materials with less resistance. Conversely, longer wavelengths are less able to penetrate materials due to their lower energy levels.
Which best describes the ability to govern?
sovereignty
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Can you use a water seal product after it has started to gel?
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Which term describes the ability of a solid to return to its original shape?
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What term describes the ability to repay debt?
Creditworthiness
