How do you get over the father of your kids?

Answer 1

Carefully. It's not just about 'getting over' him, but also about being able to work with him when needed (assuming you are still in touch about your son).

Try to rid yourself of some daily routines that remind you of your child's father and the time you were together. Try to pick up some new hobbies, a new look, etc. Don't forget to NOT let that energy pass on to your son; he shouldn't think that you do not love him because you are trying not to love his father romantically.

Answer 2

It's a hard decision to make. Try talking it through with him and thinking about the consequences before you do anything yourself. Answer If the feeling is there for BOTH of you (and he is likeable), then trying to stay with him is a worthwhile pursuit. Otherwise, he is always the kids' father and you can treat him like you would an acquaintance, a neighbor or a friend. You cannot own someone and so if they are not into you, then let them go. It will take time once you decide to do this, but it is your best chance to change your life and move forward.

Answer 3

AWKWARD that is so sad thinking of would could of been but don't dwell on the past look to the future :) try to get on with your life ,make yourself busy ,don't spend to much time alone and don't over think the situation some things just aren't meant to be. It's his loss not yours.

Answer 4

• For women of any age giving birth is an experience in itself, but it also is suppose to draw the parents closer together (that baby is part of them both) but, unfortunately not all parents of a new baby feel this way and your child's father is one of them. This shows he is immature and lacks commitment. Sometimes young people fall in love and one or the other falls out of love and, sex is generally going to happen sometime in their relationship and there is a high percentage of unmarried young women because of it. Since he has told you he is in love with his ex it is obvious he is extremely immature and the best thing you can do is make sure he pays you child support towards his own child and give him some responsibility to mature him. Even at this it is not uncommon when a young man gets a young woman pregnant that he panics and doesn't feel the need to stay with her. Set him straight right now that the baby is his and that he will be paying child support. Don't be surprised if he denies he's the father, but there are DNA tests to prove he is wrong and let him know that. You cannot force him to love you or his child or stop him from going back to his ex, but you can be mature and raise your baby with the help of his child support.

Answer 5

Time will heal your pain..be patient..when you meet someone else you will be happy again..

Answer 6

Speaking from experience i dont think you ever do. You just have to move on and remember why it didnt work and learn from it.

Answer 7

He is simply telling you the truth. To get over this, you have to find out from him if He wishes to return to his ex or stay with you. Don't force him to take or make the wrong decision.

Answer 8

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