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Let him divorce you then, God has called us to peace and not to be fighting. Try Jesus Christ for a change. Let God handle your battles. But your husband shouldn't be threating you about the divorce. If he really wanted to divorce you, long time ago he had done it. And you are as guilty as him for allowing it to happen after 14yrs. I would play his bluff. He is just threatening you to steer away from his guilt. You have to be stronger than that men can sense when your weak. If he really wants to leave do you really want him?

it depends on how important that lie was and well i would sit down and decide "do i really want to be with him" "do i really love him" "what can i do for us to not fight so much" basically think about the good things in your relationship and the bad. see which out weighs the other. and well decide if you relationship is worth having and working things out. then well tell him how you feel.

To be perfectly honest, you need to ask yourself why, after 14 years, are you asking this question in the first place. Apparently, always before, you've stayed married. Has something changed in your relationship recently? Was this lie a *different* lie from all the other lies?Then you need to look at your situation honestly. If you say, "Fine! Let's get a divorce!. . . .then you need to think about *these* questions: Can I make it on my own? Do I have a place to live? Can I raise my children (if you have them) alone? (Because realistically with so many deadbeat dads, you should NOT count on either child support OR alimony even if it is part of the settlement) On the other hand, if you decide to try to work things out again (with counseling or your own determination) then you need to realize that unless you BOTH want to work it out--it won't happen. If your husband's heart is set on divorce, then, barring a miracle--no amount of counseling will work. One person acting alone can NOT save a marriage--it takes two to fix a marriage just like it took two to establish the marriage in the first place.

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