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Husband ignores you refuses or avoid sex doesn't take you seriously or talk to you and acts like he is the victim WHY I when all I do is walk on eggshells?
Itsounds like you may have said or done something that he interpreted as a negative to his sexual prowess or even his sense of self. Maybe it wasn't even directed at him. Men have very fragile egos when it comes to sex. If a guy feels he can't be exactly what he perceive his woman wants, he shuts down. A bruised ego is hard for a man to overcome. It's easier to just avoid all sex with his woman than to face the pain. What may seem very minor and insignificant to you may make a world of difference to him. Also, something said at the wrong time can do this. Once when we were making love, my wife mentioned to men that she didn't want me touching her rectal area this time - something she sometimes wanted and sometimes didn't. Although appropriate for us to discuss when not in the middle of making love, it shrunk me right up at that point because of her timing. She felt horrible, and so did I. We talked about it, but it STILL took me awhile to be able to get it up for her again. We decided at that point that - barring something causing pain - we would not ever mention what we don't want while in the midst of making love, only what we DO want. My wife and I are great communicators, and even so, problems happen. For guys who are used to or are not trained to talk about sexual problems, imagine what a difficult situation it is for them. Regardless, your husband sounds very hurt by something. If he can't or won't tell you, it may be best to simply stroke his ego for awhile. What did you used to love about him (not just sexually)? Bring up those things. When you are talking with a friend in front of him, talk about how great he is and be specific. Bring up all those sex emails we all get and laugh and say, "Why would I be interested in stuff like when I have big Jim (or whatever his name is) to please me?" If he still doesn't gradually come around, then there may be something much deeper going on. Best wishes to you.
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How do you get back at your husband if he ignores you in front of your kids?
Getting back at your husband for ignoring you in front of your children is immature and it is wiser when the children are not around to discuss this bad behavior by your husband. It's not about getting even with your husband, but trying to work out your problems in you marriage. If he will not discuss this problem then suggest seeing a marriage counselor and if he refuses that then tell him that you are not staying in a marriage where he ignores you in front of the children because both of you are suppose to raise your children with good manners and not show them how to demean a woman.
Do you stay with your husband who is on drugs and refuses to get help?
No, leave now
You are legally divorced your ex husband refuses to leave your home?
Who was awarded the home?
How can you make your husband stop cheating with a works for him and fire her He refuses to see the light?
If your husband wants her then hewill keep her. Obviously he does. GET OUT NOW!!!!
What are Ohio dowry laws?
Husband refuses to sign dowry on property being purchased
What can a Jewish woman do if her husband refuses to grant her a Jewish divorce?
Report him to the Jewish Authorities.
What do you do when husband and wife are divorcing wife owns a car husband will be driving during the separation but refuses to make the car payment as promised?
If the wife refuses to make the car payment, then it should be up to the husband to pay for it. After all, he is the one driving it. If the husband won't make the payment, the wife should take the car back. That's only reasonable. The husband shouldn't expect the wife to pay for him.. He's a grown man.
American husband and wife buy an apartment in Brazil wife leaves husband and moves to Brazil husband wants to sell wife refuses what can be done legally?
The husband can sell his 50% of the apartment to the wife or to anyone he wants
How do you decide if your marriage is able to be saved if your husband refuses to talk about anything but sex?
Thats probably your answer right there!
What if your you suspect Asperger's Syndrome in your husband but he refuses to read about it?
You could talk to a psychologist and tell them the signs of Aspergers that your husband is showing. That way if your husband does have Aspergers he can get medicine for his symptoms, but not all people with Aspergers need medicine
Can you report a car stolen in Pennsylvania if your daughter has died and the title is in your name but her husband refuses to give it back?
Yes you can.
What is a sign your husband isn't attracted to you anymore?
if he flinches when you bring up sex, or he refuses to have sex with you, he probably isn't attracted
