As a parent, you are responsible for your child and have both a right and an obligation to do what is best for him. Explain to him your reasons that you feel he is too young and stick to your guns on it. Make sure he understands that your rules are based on how much you love him, not on how much you want to control his life.
Also you may want to have him actually define what he thinks it means to "have a girlfriend" to better understand exactly what he is looking for....
Does he want to be like the other kids?
Are other kids teasing him because he doesn't have a girlfriend?
Does he feel like he has to have a girlfriend in order to "grow up"?
Is there a particular girl he likes? (In that case teach him how to have a friend who is a girl without necessarily having her as a girlfriend.)
Knowing what he is thinking will help you understand better how to best counsel him and help you and him grow closer.
Let's be honest - what a 5th grader is thinking about when it comes to girlfriend/boyfriend is far less mature than the relationships he will have in another 10 years (at least it had BETTER BE!). He won't miss out on anything by waiting a while to have a girlfriend and it will probably allow him to develop much more healthy interpersonal skills to NOT try to have a girlfriend
Well it might help you get into college if you think of that...
i do
i dont think its crazy i mean, im in 5th grade and i love someone :)
I'd say 7th or 8th grade, I'm in 6th but I still think that's a bit young
think out of the box
anything u can think of
Shure! it is absolutely fine to give your girlfriend a Christmas gift in 7th grade. she will adore you if you do. she will think you think shes special and love you even more!
If you think she likes you yes you should tell her!
5th grade is still elementary school 6-8 is middle school. It depends on what school you go to, some schools think the fifth grade is old enough to be with the older kids. If you are talking out of school you can play any sport :)
No, wait for him. Speaking of, will you be my girlfriend?
well fifth grade may have alot of drama i guess. but it depends on the person because if there is a person who doesn't listen and they think there all that then most likely there would be drama.
They may think of it as blood coming out of a girls vigina or they can think of it as changinq classes.