What you are feeling is part of the abuse that took place. YOu were made to feel that nothing you did was right and that is the strong hold of abuse. Im proud of you for taking the steps for a healthier life. It doesnt show loyalty is shows strength... Hopefully, in leaving the abuser, you have behaved in a way that makes you proud: doing no harm, just removing yourself and your belongings from the situation. We tend to replay situations to see if we can make them come out right the next time around. My wedding was a circus, and for years I dreamed of redoing it so it would be as I pictured in my mind. Perhaps you are in the phase of mourning the passing of the relationship and its history?
* Most victims of abuse just want to leave with the clothes on their back and are not worried about leaving their abuser penniless. The abuser has taken everything from their victim ... their dignity; peace of mind; brain washed them into believing no other man would want them and they are useless and will never make it out in the world on their own; alienated them from their family and friends and controlled all money issues in the relationship. If there are children involved then the best you can hope for is child support and that would have to go through the courts. Victims of abuse generally want no part of their abuser and will do anything to stay completely away. The victim should seek help from Women's Abuse Centers to find a 'safe place' until they can get on their feet. These centers give moral support; programs about victims of abuse; go to court with them; help with any children the victim may have and help them find a job. If you are smart you'll head out the door and never look back and not look for revenge because the abuser always loses in the end ... they hang themselves with their own rope.
He should firmly say,"No!" If she does not listen, he should try to explain to her his feelings about the situation.
Rose is confused at the end of the passage because she grapples with conflicting emotions and information. She is torn between her expectations and the reality of the situation, leaving her uncertain about her feelings and the choices she should make. This internal struggle, coupled with ambiguous cues from others, further deepens her confusion. Ultimately, she finds herself at a crossroads, unsure of how to proceed.
In the book "Holes" by Louis Sachar, after leaving the Mary Lou, the boys should have turned right instead of left. This would have led them in the direction of their intended destination. Their choice to turn left ultimately leads them into trouble, highlighting the theme of choices and consequences throughout the story.
16 i think i'm not sure maybe you should go ask a police station
That's like asking "Should a child abuser be allowed to keep custody of their child?"
you shouldn't do anything
Have the abuser arrested.
It's not uncommon to have complex feelings about siblings, but it's important to reflect on the nature of those feelings and what they mean to you. If you're feeling confused or conflicted, it might be helpful to talk to someone you trust or a mental health professional for guidance. Healthy relationships with siblings should be based on mutual respect and support.
Always answer questions about your feelings in the present organization as positive. Your reasons for leaving should be stated in relation to how you plan to grow and increase your opportunity.
It should mean "abuser," specifically one who is feminine.
The first - crucial - steps are to acknowledge that he is abuser and seek help. Abusers are usually in denial: If the abuser is also a narcissist (suffers from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder - NPD), this may be of some assistance:
"Yes, it exists if that's what your asking. Google it if you want." -- first answer to this question The fact that the above contributor doesn't know (or care) about the difference between "your" and "you're" tells you all you need to know about whether to accept his opinion on word usage. "Conflicted" is widely used but should not be. Think about it. "Conflict" is a noun. You can experience conflict or try to add more conflict to a story you're writing. But if you are "conflicted," who or what is doing the conflicting? "Love" and "loved" might seem similar, but the difference is that when someone is loved, there is someone who loves them. You can't "conflict" someone. "Ambivalent" is a real word that captures the mixed feelings that people who use "conflicted" are trying to indicate.
Wait for her to decide if she likes you or her boyfriend she is obviosly feeling conflicted between her feelings for you and ger boyfriend, it is important that you do not pressure her into deciding tell her you understand what shes feeling and that what ever choice she makes is ment to be.
Answer If you have conflicted feelings of having done the wrong thing after you have left your abuser which is the Right things that is normal. It shows that you have a conscience, loyalty and such. However, the thing to do is to remember that, you did the right thing for the right reasons, so you do not need to revisit the decision. Maybe, it is because it took so long to consider leaving that your brain just habitually goes there. If you turn your mind to other things, then that will help you pass through this time. Eventually, you will be looking forward and not back. Answer Victims of abuse are traumatized. Many of them develop PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). One should feel; angry, resentful, broken hearted, depressed, and crying many tears. Crying is the bodies way of healing itself. You need to get it out or it will cause illness in your body. You should work on forgiving yourself too. Possibly antidepressants might help you, maybe Lexapro, ask your Doctor. Please note; other answers have been moved to the discussion box of this question. Depress of course.
Well if its UNintended, then no it doesn't make you a abuser. The abuser continues his abusive ways even after it's been brought up to him or her. Just be sure to talk to your spouse about this problem. Let them know that you are sorry for what you did and you did not mean to do it.
The best thing to do is to talk to your friends. Communication is key! Nobody can read your mind, so express your feelings. If they are your true friends it will all work itself out.