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first...i'd like to know why this is tagged for the "Jonas brothers..." are you in love with a Jonas brother??

First off, do you love the guy you're dating? Do you even have feelings for him or are you dating him just to occupy your time?

If you ARE JUST dating him (no feelings), break it off.It's not fair to him and it's kind of disrespectful. Plus if this guy that you love sees that you're single you may become a spot on a his radar because in all likeliness, right now with the BOTH of you being taken, he's probably not heavily debating dating you.

If you DO like the guy you're dating, DON'T BREAK IT OFF FOR SOMETHING (OR SOMEONE) YOU DONT HAVE....epic mistake. I mean, the guy you say you love (who is dating someone else), do you know him? Are you friends with him? Do you talk to him later or is your love really just an infatuation?

Here's pretty much the number one rule from the book "He's Just Not That Into You": If the guy you love, loved you...he'd be with YOU.

Guys normally get to the point if they REALLY want something or someone. A guy that pulls the whole "Oh I love you but I just can't break up with my girlfriend..." either a) wants you to be the hot hook up on the side and have the best of both worlds, or b) is a spineless coward who you probably don't want to date anyway....

Whatever you do DO NOT try to be the homewrecker. DO NOT try to "steal" this guy from his girlfriend because normally, it's not going to work and you'll just wind up embarassing yourself AND pissing his girlfriend AND possibly HIM off and even worse...if it does work...that's not a good sign either...because if YOU can do it to him ("make" him leave his current gf) then some OTHER girl can do it to YOU when you're together with him (because he's the kind of guy that can be persuaded).

So in synopsis...if you don't like the guy you're dating, break up with him and wait for the guy you love to make a move, if he ever does. You could be waiting a while though, I must warn you. Also, make sure you're not over-romanticizing the situation. True life isn't The Notebook. Make SURE this guy actually likes you before you decide to hold out for him...otherwise you could wind up hurt in the end.

Best of luck to you!

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