Do husband really want the kind of other women they look at?

Answer 1

The answer is a complex one. People have been trying to answer why men look for ages, and no one has yet come up with a satisfactory answer.

The short answer to the above is no. If the husband wanted a woman he looked at, he would likely leave his wife and try for the one he looks at. That he remains married is a strong indication that he is generally happy with his relationship.

He may be looking because some color caught his attention. It could have been a sound. He may appreciate the way she moves. He may be looking simply because the woman was attractive. He may even be thinking of his wife in a nostalgic way (remembering the way she used to look when they first met). Men are hardwired for visual queues.

Looking is no indication of cheating or a desire to cheat.

Think about it this way: if the woman being looked at did not want to be looked at, Burqas would be more common. Hang a target and someone is going to shoot at it (metaphorically speaking).

Answer 2

Not necessarily. Looking at other women doesn't always mean a husband wants to be with them. It could just be a passing attraction or appreciation of beauty. Communication with your partner about your concerns and feelings can help address any insecurities.