Your question is actually part of your answer; You are in control of your thoughts and moods; if you are bothered by someone or some thing, it's because YOU CHOOSE to let it bother you; OTHERWISE, some one or some thing controls your moods and not yourself. If you can change what bothers you, then do so; If you cannot change it, then, realize it's in the same category with things like, the weather; you can't change it, so you adapt and accept it. Hope this helps.
I would like to add that in fact we have self will, this self will must be accompanied by auto distancing from your OWN emotions, to put it plainly, step back, count 1,2,3,4,5,6 then think...why do I feel angry? who makes me angry, his words or MY EMOTIONS? I agree with the statement above, only YOU can control your OWN emotions, and while I am at it , YOU CANNOT EVER CONTROL OTHERS EMOTIONS OR ACTIONS. You can only change yourself. Sounds simple? It is, but why don`t people do this, because it requires you to ananlyze the reasons why, somehting that people don't want to do because it requires admitting somethings, that well, we don't want to. In fact, this is an excercise in emotional intelligence spoken by Daniel Goleman, who is the foremost expert on the subject. In fact, you can put his name along with "emotional intelligence" and you will find lots of info on him.
P.S: I AM A PSYCHOLOGY MAJOR TAKING ADVANCED COURSES.
"Mind over matter" -- If you don't mind than it doesn't matter.
I know that sounds overly simplistic, but if you really think about it, it is that simple.
watch Oprah she'll give you motivation to think about a 'bigger picture' [usually] P
Do something you enjoy. If stress is bothering you, you can take 5 deep breathes. It helps me, so I guess it will work on you.
Anxious is when a person start to fear something and is a disorder. Worried is when you have something on your mind and cant keep it off.
Find something else to entertain yourself and get your mind off eating. Whever you think about eating and you don't want that, tap your fingers on your arm or sing your favorite song or someting like that. u shudn't but if you wanted to then just read a book or play computer (Just keep yourself on the go) :)
Only immature people start fights by picking on people or bothering them until they lose their tempers, so keep your hands off (and your mouth shut unless you can say something nice). Also, stealing is wrong so keep your hands to yourself there, too. And there are plenty of things you should not touch, as well. Lots of reasons to keep your hands to yourself - I'll bet you can think of some more, too.
It means a great weight of worry has been lifted.
OK so say the world was about to explode. Instead of trying to do something about it, you spent the night partying, getting drunk, and just having fun. See how that might sound better than working your butt off trying to save the world? That state of mind is the titanic syndrome.
Get your mind off the subject. If something is bothering you, talk to her or someone about it before your daughter turns into a victim.
Do something with your friends to keep him off your mind.
You can train your dog to stop bothering his wound
Keep bothering them. If you haven't received the title after about 90 days, then something has to be wrong.
It means you have something that you can't get off your mind and you can't stop obsessing about it. You don't like to think about it and the closer the event or what ever that's bothering you gets the worse your bad feeling gets and its sticks in your mind evenmore
Something is bothering you.
They normally brush it off or they squeak to alert you that something is wrong if it is bothering them.
I try to keep doing something it takes my mind off what ever I'm lonely about. :)
I try to keep doing something it takes my mind off what ever I'm lonely about. :)
PLay Xbox or something that's what i do when i need a break or if im dry.
Anxious is when a person start to fear something and is a disorder. Worried is when you have something on your mind and cant keep it off.
There are many games and puzzles that are designed to keep your mind off of something including something that you recently ordered and are waiting for it to arrive. You might choose to do a jigsaw puzzle, read a book, watch television, play a computer game, play a board game, or even take a walk to keep from going crazy waiting.