How could I solve the problem What are my choices Who can I trust and talk to for help and guidance?

Answer 1

You don't say what the problem is but, by inference, it seems to be a very sensitive issue for you. Depending on what the problem is, there are several confidential avenues open to you...

• If its a spiritual problem, you could talk to a Roman Catholic priest. They are bound by a vow of privacy during and after the Sacrament of Reconciliation that transcends all legal issues as well as time. (Other clergy in other religions might also be bound by vows of secrecy - you need to ask.)
• If its a legal problem, you could talk to a lawyer. They are bound by attorney-client privilege.
• If its a psychological or emotional problem, you could talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist. They are bound by doctor-patient privilege. However, you should understand that they are obligated to take action if there is sufficient evidence that you are going to hurt yourself or someone else, but I would not dwell on that aspect, because confidentiality is still protected by HIPAA.
• If its a medical problem, you could talk to a doctor. They are also bound by doctor-patient privilege.
• If its a spiritual problem, you could talk to God. He does exist; he does love you; and he will respond, if you are open and honest with both yourself and him. Sometimes you have to let go of preconceived notions about God. Sometimes this process is hard, because many people may pray to God and do not seem to get an answer because they already have made a decision to go one way or the other, and God will respect that - its called free will. You would need to pray and meditate and be absolutely honest with yourself, and ask God to help you discern his will for you. You need to take down any wall you might have between you and yourself and God, and get into a place, internally, where lying is impossible. Know that sometimes answers come from unexpected places - be open to all possibilities - including those that might not make sense.
• You can also talk to your parents. I know, that's hard, but, you know, they ultimately love you and want the best for you.

Good luck, and I wish you Peace and Love.